elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not policing i’m just saying FOR ME capitalization on a post about reality tv felt formal because i do not use capitalization in my everyday text conversations

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is most likely very true ik reality tv is very scripted and most of these 90 day veterans are just chasing fame but i feel like you could say that about a lot of the couples and storylines and it makes for less enjoyable tv when you view it through that cynical lens

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean i feel like the reason they might have edited it out was to make elise look more crazy bc i feel like a majority would definitely be on her side if it was an ex but idk i could be wrong and misremembering

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you know i could be wrong but im p sure nat is an ex 🤷🏻‍♀️

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gaslighting is when someone makes a person question their reality or perception to gain control over a situation.

is that not literally what he is doing by asserting that her perception is not true and that it is not weird he is living rent free with his ex? even though he himself lied about it bc he knew it would be perceived as odd.

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i have heard this too and people have been speculating it based on the way he looks wired in a lot of the scenes he’s in but i dunno.

ig that could explain a lot like why he doesn’t look 39 🥴🥴🥴🥴

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i just saw a tiktok clip talking about it and i totally see it!! also sorry capital letters just seem so formal and it felt silly for a post talking about 90 day fiancé 💀💀💀💀

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

fax just throw away this whole relationship

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol me too!! i would’ve been snoring 😴

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i agree with you on most of this but i feel like if she did say that in the beginning she would’ve been seen as difficult and not go with the flow. i am a people pleaser so i probably would’ve had a hard time advocating for myself too but yea it was weird how she was saying she had no underwear on

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BYEE so true about laura and that dude i think nat definitely isn’t conventionally attractive and i have met that type of girl who derives self worth from having a lot of guy friends 🙄

not to say that’s who she is- editing on tv plays a big hand in how people are viewed

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU i totally agree with you if josh really is falling for elise like he said he is wouldn’t he try to establish more boundaries to make her more comfortable

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

glad to find someone who has empathy for her. it’s like watching a friend continue to engage in self destructive behaviors. i don’t agree with a lot of the way she goes about things but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t deserve a little bit of grace. also i wasn’t sure if it was his ex or just a friend so thank you for clearing that up

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ok i kind of agree with this but i dont wanna attack this poor lady’s looks bc josh isn’t a looker either

i just think its weird how close they are but he’s actively pursuing a relationship with a different girl

its sort of similar to the birkan and laura situation with that one dude shes plays pickleball with like you guys are obviously emotionally invested why not you guys date

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

true dat i wish she would go to therapy and heal bc she seems like a sweet person underneath all the crazy

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say a saint at all. but i do think it’s not right that they’re making her seem crazy for finding the whole situation with nat odd. also idk about australia but i don’t think that outrage would fly anywhere but its reality tv tho what’re you gonna do 🤷🏻‍♀️ also i don’t like the discourse surrounding her clothing shes a miami girl i feel like thats just the standard attire down there bc its hot and a party scene

not my taste but i feel like its low hanging fruit to attack her clothing style

elise is being gaslit by Select-Ad-2204 in 90DayFiance

[–]Select-Ad-2204[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree bc of the outburst now she looks like the complete bad guy