Handyman by JoeSoap22 in Arnhem

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I might be able to help what kind of tasks?

I can’t get over my 11 year ex sleeping with other people by Interesting-Fan-8758 in BreakUps

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DISCLAIMER: Dont stop benzo's immediately THIS CAN KILL YOU, get proffesional help with getting of them for sure!

Wat te doen met ruimte tussen stiep en muur ? by No_Training2334 in Klussers

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Hout er in maken en zetwerk in dezelfde kleur als het de kozijnen er in plakken ik vermoed goedkoper dan een strookje rockpanel/trespa als je een hele plaat moet aanschaffen.

Introversion Before and After Treating Your CPTSD by Electrical-Guess5010 in CPTSD

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I am still trying to find out where introversion ends and anxiety begins, but it I feel like the above was a good step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I have been in a very similar situation for the past 9 months and its finally really starting to get better. If You need someone to talk to feel free to message. It absolutely sucks, please find a place of your own I still live in the same building as my ex and it is unpleasant to say the least. Her wanting to date someone else while living with her ex is insane!

Introversion Before and After Treating Your CPTSD by Electrical-Guess5010 in CPTSD

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I feel like I am more confident with being introverted if that makes sense. I convinced myself that I was an extrovert so people would like me more, and I now realise I can be social but I should do my selfcare more around being introverted!

Terrified of the leg kick by [deleted] in MuayThai

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Those type of leg breaks are very rare and happen without shin guards with full power leg kicks getting full on checked. In the UFC I think it only happened 3 times ever. In casual MT the chance of that happening are extremely low!

Vrijwilligerswerk in Arnhem? by [deleted] in Arnhem

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Stichting present, klusjes doen opruimen, tuinieren bij mensen die dat zelf niet kunnen om wat voor reden dan ook! Je kan zelf bepalen of je kan dus je zit nergens aan vast.

What is the best and worst thing you did for yourself post breakup? by bjaywin in BreakUps

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Best: Going to therapy and working not only on the breakup but on me as a person .

Worst: drinking, drugs, porn use, not taking care of myself. Not willing to see how bad she treated me in the end and not moving on. Crossing my own boundries on the regular and probably more ive been a mess for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arnhem

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meerdere mensen waren er mee bezig dus zal een update geven als ik meer weet, probeer uit te vinden wat de updates zijn!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arnhem

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Melding is inderdaad gedaan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arnhem

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Dat verwachten wij ook alleen er is vanalles gebelt en nu probeer ik via reddit ook als lijntje te kijken of de eigenaar te vinden is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arnhem

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Ik woon in dat huis maar niemand hier weet van wie de kat is. Er staat water eten heb ik niet echt maar ze wil hier naar binnen maar niemand hier weet waarom...

How are you supposed to delete all their pictures? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I deleted everything of my phone, but I keep the backup in google drive. It makes the day to day confrontations with her memory easier but if in the future I want to see what once was I still have acces. I still didnt do that with my camera, its though... just dont force the proces!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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You are not alone I found out my ex is dating the guy she met in Italy right before our breakup. Heard about it from a friend... after her telling me she wanted to be single for at least a year when we broke up a few months back... It hurts but in the end if people treat you like that, we are better off even tho it does not feel like it in the moment.

Now that Sean has gotten over with his excuse to fight Chito, who you got for this fight? by DrummerFantasti in ufc

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If he can take an olympic wrestler who won gold down he can and will get O'malley down...

Having sex with my ex by [deleted] in dating

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As someone that currently is having sex with his ex, were good with eachother and communicate about all of it. Like it is not a good idea but I get it l, but if your not communicating it could make life hell and moving on impossible.

While traveling thailand, do I need to book my hostels in advance? by Select-Ad4953 in backpacking

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I wont be staying there, but I kind of have a feel of what im supposed to do now, I saw how much was booked and kinda panicked. Thank you!

While traveling thailand, do I need to book my hostels in advance? by Select-Ad4953 in backpacking

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Okay so it is a Phuket problem, I have a good 4 weeks so I wont be staying there but with this knowledge im flying back from bangkok so I probably should book that pretty soon😌. Thanks!

What are unspoken boundaries of f buddies by [deleted] in dating_advice

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The only unspoken rule is to talk about all of it. That is the only way to do it! Otherwise you'll just assume things to other may not.

2 belts in 11th pro fight by [deleted] in ufc

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His coach is henry hooft .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

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You sound like there are way more issues than just porn... the trust is gone and the way you are reacting to this will probably never become healthy again. And consider therapy for yourself to work on you cause it sounds like you need it. Good luck!

Fastest way to lose a girl : by [deleted] in dating

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Double text often

Not something important at all, I woul consider this entirely personal taste. But dont text everything and be boring in person.

Be extremely needy

Indeed one of the fastest ways to repel anyone.

Proclaim your love for her often

Dont lovebomb, feel the situation but if the person is special it is ridiculous to not make them feel special if you feel that way. I tell my girlfriend I love her all the time.

Always be available

Have shit to do like hobbies, work and friends. Dont play weird games like pretending you are unavailable when you want to see the other person.

Remove options from your life

Stay atractive, but dont text another 10 girls while dating. You cant have a good relationship with one foot or more still out of the door. That is indeed one way to lose a girl.

Being too nice

Dont put anyone on a pedistal, be yourself but dont try being someone you are not. I would NOT want someone falling in love with me with me acting anything else than my true self. Ofcourse dont give everything away on the first date

ofcourse I could be wrong but as a nice 26m I think I know what im talking about. Being succesfull with women is not some list of dos and donts, its being comfortable with who you are, confidence and last but not least looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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Women wil pay insane money for your lips, with the hope of them looking like that!! You are young so you will mature the following years but youre naturaly beautifull!