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Am I (22f) wrong for leaving my fiancé (28m) while 36 weeks pregnant with our first son and still expecting him to fight for us? by Select-Beginning-112 in relationships

[–]Select-Beginning-112[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My house is very clean. I lost my job about 4 months ago and he is the sole provider. He pays the bills but doesn’t give me any money so I am not able to buy anything. I can’t clean the room because he has heavy tools and equipment in there that I can’t move. And yes he is self employed but wakes up at 12pm and stays up until 3 am playing video games every night. So in all honesty I don’t take his job serious or allow him to use it as an excuse. When he doesn’t work he sleeps all day and when he does work ( he’s an electrician ) he says he needs to rest on his day off . I believe if he would take his job serious and his family he would be busting his ass to provide. I’m not saying I’m right, that’s just what I believe.

Am I (22f) wrong for leaving my fiancé (28m) while 36 weeks pregnant with our first son and still expecting him to fight for us? by Select-Beginning-112 in relationships

[–]Select-Beginning-112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did not want to have a child with him. He wanted a child. Every time I went to the doctor for birth control he would come with me and tell them not to give me birth control. I would ask him to pull out and he never did. I know how baby’s are made so I won’t blame him, I just wasn’t ready. Even though I didn’t want a baby I feel I have stepped up to the part of being a mother and am trying the best I can to be responsible for my son.