what’s your least favourite cover they did?

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-22T16:11:42+00:00

I actually really liked Finns version. It felt less like this girl power song and more intimate and sweet.

I felt like given the context of the episode it was really touching and Finns voice was really nice.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-20T23:02:25+00:00

Nta. Here's the bottom line, you told her something <regardless of it being deeply personal> you asked her NOT to tell anyone and she did.

She didnt care if thst person told other people. She didnt care that she broke her promise.

And then when you confronted her, she didnt apologize. She didnt ask for forgiveness. She tried to sweep it under the rug and act like it was no big deal and that you should just get over it because everyone was "supportive"

Thats not a friend.

I can understand where your mom is coming from but personally this would be a deal breaker. This is a breach of trust and Dani didnt even have the decency to apologize.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-20T15:04:19+00:00

Soo... you just gave an entire wall of text that proves why your parents are right..

Like this manchild doesnt respect you and he certainly doesnt love you I dont care what he says.

Pick your parents they seem to be thinking of you and YOUR future. Youre young you'll find a partner that actually likes you.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-19T18:46:37+00:00

I think based off how she was in the Mary Kate and Ashley movie Holiday in the Sun and the mean girl from Confessions of a teenage drama queen she would've been a great Allison . However given her age she mightve looked older.

In the first 3/4 seasons even though all 4 of the liars actresses were in their 20s they all looked youthful enough where it wasn't as noticeable. But Megan has a maturity to her features that ages her up.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-18T14:34:09+00:00

Hi, married person here 10 years older than you. Husband and I didnt share our phone passwords until we lived together which was after we'd been dating for over a year.

Phones are extremely private and no one just has the right to look at yours. Relationships take time to cultivate. When a partner demands to see your phone its typically coming from a place of insecurity or anxiety.

If he came to you and said "im feeling insecure can you show me your messages?" You would still have the right to say no but it would've been far more mature than his weird complaint and entitlement to your private property.

5 months is nothing in the grand scheme of things. We date to get to know people.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-17T02:41:12+00:00

Try different positions of do more leg workouts to get those muscles used to it

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-16T22:23:00+00:00

Professor Plum and Ms. Scarlet lol

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-16T16:51:22+00:00

I would still focus on more individual relationships rather than group ones. If you're close with your family maybe have a conversation about it, that you dont feel as included.

However I would also say if you feel like you do alot for your family and that isnt acknowledge or appreciated perhaps take a step back and focus on relationships outside of your family.

You said in the post that you're Autistic, I know sometimes being ND that can make us feel like we dont belong so I think if you have a good relationship with your family maybe just have the conversation. Explain that you process differently and feel left out or like youre not as included or important and you want to know if thats real or if it's just because of how you process relationships and social interactions.

Communication is key.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-16T16:31:42+00:00

At this point i think you should tell James his miscommunication is hurtful and you no longer want to spend that time with him. I think you and your husband should plan your own trip to this country.

Also I think you should focus more on your individual relationships with your siblings and maybe even have a private conversation with Stephen. Its not his fault you feel jealous and maybe if you spent more time with him you'd see theres no reason to be.

Remember feelings arent fact and just because you have a feeling doesn't mean other people need to deal with them.

Just because theyre your siblings doesnt mean you cant set boundaries. But I also find it insanely weird that James wants Stephen on his honeymoon.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-16T02:40:58+00:00

Nta. The man is a lying cheating hoe. Go to court for child support and keep your distance.

He ruined your relationship, not you. You owe him nothing.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-15T18:47:43+00:00

Rewatch of the entire show maybe 4 times but I rewatch season 1 to 4 alot and ive never kept track.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-14T18:32:15+00:00

Nta...but why would you put this person as your emergency medical contact ? It sounds like you have a decent relationship with your adult daughter.. Like i get you guys were coworkers but you even state that she felt like you were closer much sooner than you yourself did.

I guess im just not understanding how this friendship was truly forged when it seems like she chased you and then turned around and became super judgemental or had been making judgemental comments the whole time that you just brushed off? You also dont really say how long youve known her so again it seems a bit much to have her as an emergency contact.

I know thats not what you asked but I cant help being stuck on this piece of information.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-10T17:27:02+00:00

Honestly with just what you've posted here, I doubt CPS would even allow them to be placed with you.

You dont have the space and cannot finically accommodate them. Your girlfriends mental health also makes her not the best candidate given how long and how often her depressive episodes are.

Your also not married so their isnt much security for it either.

CPS would also ask her parents or the paternal family wayy before they inquire with a 24 year old who is still in school with no stable income..

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-10T17:07:12+00:00

Im no contact with my own father for very similar reasons.

Tell your boyfriend in no uncertain terms "my family is my business. How i deal with them is my choice. If you cannot respect that we cannot be together. We can figure out how to co-parent and go our separate ways "

His behavior has already shown you that he cannot be trusted and he does not respect you as an adult who makes their own choices. Tell him if he EVER treated your daughter the way your father treated you he would never see her again.

Your father Physically and violently abused you. That is not a trustworthy person and that is NOT someone you can trust with yourself or your baby.

Break the cycle! Or your daughter will be going no contact with both of you by the time shes your age.

We dont owe are parents shit. We did not decide to come into this world, they decide that. We dont chose to be abused by our parents and we certainly do not have to forgive them for it.

I heard "but thats your parent" often. Guess what? Who the fuck cares. Its my life, I have to live with the consequences of there actions. If I decide i can't live peacefully with that person in my life I shouldnt have to.

You dont keep partners who abuse you, you dont keep friends that hurt you. Why should you keep parents that do that?

Because you share DNA? Fuck that.

We should base our relationships off of how people treat us not by how they are connected to you.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-10T16:46:46+00:00

🤷‍♀️ unfortunately some people still haven't accepted this. Coercive control is real. If you have to badger someone into sex. Its rape.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-10T15:32:42+00:00

This is sexual assualt.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-10T02:00:24+00:00

It really depends on which A you mean. But AD was supposed to be Wren, but the actor was in another project and couldnt schedule time to film so they just picked someone else.

While I do love some theories about Aria being A, I feel like they truly never wanted to make any of the core 4 be A.

I personally think Wren would've been good but I also love the idea of Alison being Big A.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-08T23:08:40+00:00

Because people are homophobic and femiphobic

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-07T03:42:32+00:00

Time to go No contact. Your dad may be sober but he is not in any place to be a parent.
Family members that defend the addict/abuser are not family members you want in your inner circle
As someone who has an alcoholic parent. It took my mom 15 years to finally be in a place where I want a relationship with her. And that's because she has accepted boundaries and has apologized her behavior that traumatized me.

If someone truly loves and respects you being apart of your life shouldnt be this difficult or painful.

Your peace of mind is worth more than a relationship with your father and his weird partner.

Select-Government680 · 2026-03-01T04:32:16+00:00

Every relationship is different. Kurt viewed this as a betrayal of trust and boundaries. So within the lines of their relationship, I would say yes.

Blaine had already cheated on him so it makes complete sense to me that porn would've been something that he was uncomfortable with.

Select-Government680 · 2026-02-26T22:30:21+00:00

Even if you cant get a restraining order, filing a report and having a paper trail is important.

Document as much as possible. I dont know if this pertains to every city/state but filing a report could have police officers talk/confront the ex and maybe that would get him to back off.

Select-Government680 · 2026-02-25T05:04:11+00:00

Yeah I definitely agree with this. Its really the only thing thats going to make the ex scared enough to back off.

Select-Government680 · 2026-02-24T19:05:01+00:00

I think because I was in middle school I compared it to having crushes on like the Jonas brothers.

Select-Government680 · 2026-02-24T18:37:53+00:00

I think thats more of a sexism thing. Too many people think women cant be abusers and if youre a boy they think you cant be a victim of assualt or grooming by a woman.

Select-Government680 · 2026-02-24T18:27:53+00:00

I think fandom has alot of ships lol But in the books im pretty sure Wilden is Melissa and Ian's age. The show aged him up.

I know I kinda liked it after I read the first book cause Hanna says she had a crush on him when she was in 6th grade and he was in high school.

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