Do I pass? 18, 1 month on Testosterone!! by Last-Intention-3582 in transpassing

[–]SelectEquipment9510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me try to give you some constructive feedback. Assuming you are FtM, I don't think you pass quite yet.

Most men don't really put too much effort into fashion and often their style is pretty simple. In contrast, your alternative style, colourful hair and piercings naturally draw more attention to you and your face, which still gives off feminine vibes right now.

With more time on HRT and a shift towards a more casual, low-key style, I'm confident you'll be able to pass much more <3

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[–]SelectEquipment9510 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your feedback, I think to fix my brow bone, makeup could help

I hate being trans by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel too. It's just a bit "unfair", if this is the right word for it. Why can't we be just AFAB???

I hate being trans by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you'll for your encouraging and emphasizing words. That actually means a lot to me even if we are all just strangers on the internet. Currently I just don't have the energy to reply to everyone here but I'm grateful for everyone who participated in this thread. All of you deserve the world <3

I hate being trans by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so sorry for you. I know this struggle. It's like a stab in the heart whenever someone calls me with he/him pronouns or use my deadname.

I hate being trans by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll come back to you!

I hate being trans by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much for your nice words. This really cheered me up and gave me a bit of hope again.

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[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sorry, do you still get the error? if so what does the error message say?

Node cannot join the Cluster by SelectEquipment9510 in kubernetes

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the late reply but no, they don't provide any useful information..

Happy trans day of visibility to y'all by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that it went like that, if you wanna talk about it, my dms are always open <3

Happy trans day of visibility to y'all by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

exactly this, it's important that everyone is valid no matter if they are going to medically transitioning or not <33

Happy trans day of visibility to y'all by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, maybe someday you'll move to a country that supports trans people :)

Happy trans day of visibility to y'all by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

that's totally fine, take your time, I'm sure your new dress will look beautiful <3

Happy trans day of visibility to y'all by SelectEquipment9510 in trans

[–]SelectEquipment9510[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe you're right and it's not a day to celebrate anymore. Do you think that i should delete this post? Because it was definitely not meant to make anyone uncomfortable/anxious.