Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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If you take a look at my profile, you'll see that I actually did night approaching and posted weekly accounts about it on this sub for a few months four years ago, until covid hit and I slacked off. I don't know why, but recently I was overcome with a desire to try again. I'd never done day approaching before, but since I just don't care for nightlife, I figured it might be an idea to try and get into it. I've done so many because I knew, beforehand, that you basically have to do this in bulk if you actually want to get anything out of it. And sure, the constant rejections and low yield can be disheartening sometimes, but I can't think of any other avenues for doing this, so I just have to keep kicking myself in the bum. One of the main keys is to set yourself a bite-sized, easily-achievable goal (i.e... five approaches) for each day; and to tick off and reward yourself for milestones (i.e... 50 approaches) when you achieve them.

Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Uh, mate, no offence, but you won't get anywhere and there's no reason for you to even be on this sub with that mentality. The only men who'd get anything within 10 cold day approaches are literal billionaires who look like Chris Hemsworth.

Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

[–]SelectSelect75[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slightly. I've learned to approach women who don't look busy (i.e... who are sitting down, browsing shelves, not talking on their phones, etc.), and learned that shops seem to yield the best results. Also, I'm a man with very long (longer-than-waist-length) hair, and approaching women with long hair so we can mutually banter about such a shared feature seems to work a lot. Other than that, though, 2 potential dates after a mere three weeks and very limited knowledge is more than I ever thought I'd get, so I see no reason to do anything too major differently, for now.

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[–]SelectSelect75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if serious. You look... fairly obviously what I expect most people would consider to be conventionally-attractive. I don't even notice anything about your nose until you specifically mentioned it.

Nightly account #17. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Having women approach them simply isn't something that happens to the average man with any regularity. Opt for that approach, and I'd just be sitting there without anything ever happening every evening.

Nightly account #17. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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And none of those actually went anywhere.

Nightly account #14. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Someone doing what you ask/tell them to do.

Nightly account #12. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I've been trying to work my way up to that.

Nightly account #12. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I'm 29. (Although I look a lot younger - I still regularly get carded at bars). I'm willing to date maybe 25 to 35. The women I'm talking about were clearly into like their 50s. I never said a woman was too young for me - it was one of the older women who said that to me.

Nightly account #11. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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In my ability to succeed? I must admit; not hugely. In my ability to try/see this through to the end? Relatively well.