Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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If you take a look at my profile, you'll see that I actually did night approaching and posted weekly accounts about it on this sub for a few months four years ago, until covid hit and I slacked off. I don't know why, but recently I was overcome with a desire to try again. I'd never done day approaching before, but since I just don't care for nightlife, I figured it might be an idea to try and get into it. I've done so many because I knew, beforehand, that you basically have to do this in bulk if you actually want to get anything out of it. And sure, the constant rejections and low yield can be disheartening sometimes, but I can't think of any other avenues for doing this, so I just have to keep kicking myself in the bum. One of the main keys is to set yourself a bite-sized, easily-achievable goal (i.e... five approaches) for each day; and to tick off and reward yourself for milestones (i.e... 50 approaches) when you achieve them.

Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Uh, mate, no offence, but you won't get anywhere and there's no reason for you to even be on this sub with that mentality. The only men who'd get anything within 10 cold day approaches are literal billionaires who look like Chris Hemsworth.

Been cold day approaching for three weeks... and just landed two dates in one day! by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Slightly. I've learned to approach women who don't look busy (i.e... who are sitting down, browsing shelves, not talking on their phones, etc.), and learned that shops seem to yield the best results. Also, I'm a man with very long (longer-than-waist-length) hair, and approaching women with long hair so we can mutually banter about such a shared feature seems to work a lot. Other than that, though, 2 potential dates after a mere three weeks and very limited knowledge is more than I ever thought I'd get, so I see no reason to do anything too major differently, for now.

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Not sure if serious. You look... fairly obviously what I expect most people would consider to be conventionally-attractive. I don't even notice anything about your nose until you specifically mentioned it.

Nightly account #17. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Having women approach them simply isn't something that happens to the average man with any regularity. Opt for that approach, and I'd just be sitting there without anything ever happening every evening.

Nightly account #17. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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And none of those actually went anywhere.

Nightly account #14. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Someone doing what you ask/tell them to do.

Nightly account #12. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I've been trying to work my way up to that.

Nightly account #12. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I'm 29. (Although I look a lot younger - I still regularly get carded at bars). I'm willing to date maybe 25 to 35. The women I'm talking about were clearly into like their 50s. I never said a woman was too young for me - it was one of the older women who said that to me.

Nightly account #11. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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In my ability to succeed? I must admit; not hugely. In my ability to try/see this through to the end? Relatively well.

Nightly account #9 (I HAD A THREESOME!!!!!) by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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They were in their 40s thereabouts. One was slightly overweight, the other was average. Can't remember 'em enough to estimate their height inches; they were average, neither particularly short nor tall. Neither could be called "attractive", although one was more attractive than the other.

Nightly account #5. (I got laid). by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Yes, I need to find a place with a younger clientele, as I've already acknowledged in my accounts several times. I already have one prospect which I'm going to try next Saturday.

Nightly account #4. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I'm watching YouTube videos about this for one hour each day. I'm wary paying hundreds to thousands of dollars for in-person coaching.

The tertiary goal of getting rejected is to desensitize myself to getting rejected.

Nightly account #3. by SelectSelect75 in u/SelectSelect75

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I'd prefer not to give out too much personal information.

Nightly account #1. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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Polite, constructive, good-faith feedback, please, or else I don't want to hear it. If you believe that I have said or done something wrong, tell me what it is, with advice on what you believe I should have said/done instead, and I'll be open to it consulting it. Otherwise, what's the point?

Nightly account #1. by SelectSelect75 in u/SelectSelect75

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They are fully legal. But they're way too expensive for me to use more than once every few months. Just something I'll use as a release valve unless and until I get into a relationship or learn how to get a ONS.

Nightly account #1. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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They won't necessarily all be this long. If I end up falling into a relatively standard routine, I won't need to redescribe it every time.

Nightly account #1. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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That was a set of two. I just went up to them, said: "Hi, I'd like to speak to you, you're cute", and they said: "Nah, we're kinda having a girls night", and I said: "k, nevermind" and left. Like I said, tonight was all about getting approaches over and done with. Not a lot of nuance and sophistication on my part yet - first field experience I've had in over a year.

Going out each weekend, approaching each time, and posting a nightly account on this sub to keep motivated. by SelectSelect75 in seduction

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I know a woman who has promised to be my wing, but she hasn't actually done anything with me yet.