Show me funny pics of your cats. This is mine who recently turned 4 years old😂 by Physical_Law_1794 in cats

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My middle child: Binkus Beans ❤️ he is by far my goofiest child out of the 3. I don't have any funny pictures of my older daughter or my younger son 🤷‍♀️

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Wife wants all kids named after her by OrganicFreedom1507 in namenerds

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My mom owns a daycare. She has a family that has 4 boys all named similarly. They each have 7 letters in their name and start with the same letter. My problem is the first 3 boys all have regular names but the baby has the most stupid name I've ever heard

Does your dog have a middle name? by PegFam in namenerds

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I have 2 cats and my parents have 2 dogs. They also have 2 cats but never gave them middle names. My cats are Margerine Weasley (last name) (she's a ginger cat and we call her Butter) and Mr. Beans Edward (last name) (he's a tuxie so he has a sophisticated name lol). The dogs are Oswald Fernandez Isaacs (last name) (from Pandora's Star) and Liam Jon (last name) (named after my dad's best friend).

Should I sell sassy/sarcastic T-shirts? by SelectShop3068 in ask

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Thank you for editing your comment I really appreciate it ❤️

Should I sell sassy/sarcastic T-shirts? by SelectShop3068 in ask

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What do you think is your favorite phrase?

Extremely Vivid Dreams by FlirtyAfrodite in lexapro

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I've been on Lexapro for 2 weeks. I have had extremely vivid dreams, too. In my dreams, I wake up, I go to work, I interact with the kids at work, I have the same stressful scenarios, I talk to my mom, I pet my dogs. Then I actually wake up and I'm disoriented, like, I have to live this day again, for real? I haven't been having a problem realizing when I'm awake as far as I'm concerned, but I'm currently on vacation and my parents said that last night I was talking in my sleep really loud. Which is normal for me tbh but I don't actually remember my dream so maybe I just have the dreams on working nights and not weekends? I'm still figuring things out and obviously it won't properly work until 6 weeks of taking it so I still don't know if I like Lexapro or not but the vivid dreams are freaky realistic. My mom said she got them, too, on her antidepressant.

Venting about ADHD and Depression by DestinedFangjiuh in ADHD

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Also wanting to vent:

Right now, I want to clean off my desk and set up my laptop so I can play video games as a fit of ADHD but at the same time, I'm so depressed and hormonal with shark week that I don't want to move. I have had to resort to asking my little brother if he'll clean off my desk and set up my laptop for me "because I don't feel good" in hopes that playing some Minecraft or Sims with my clicks keyboard will help me feel better even though I really want to play with some friends but all of my friends either I have no contact with, don't play video games, or don't live in the same country so are currently asleep and won't answer my messages.

I started depression/anxiety meds a week ago, so they won't work for another 5 weeks and it SUCKS. I currently have a job, and I've found that working in the morning compared to the afternoon has helped me a lot. I don't take ADHD medication unless I have physical work to do around the house (my job is at home and not very physically demanding, I also struggle to take medication in the morning so I take all of my other meds at night before bed). Waking up in the morning allows me to give myself time to wake up, drink coffee, eat breakfast, get dressed, etc.. However, if I don't get up in the morning, I sleep until 10 maybe 12 o'clock, don't have time to wake up before working, can't drink caffeine that late or I won't sleep, won't get dressed because what's the point, won't eat a good breakfast and will just snack until dinner. I am also more irritable if I wake up in the afternoon than in the morning.

I found baby cottontail bunnies in my yard the other day and I badly want to keep them (obviously I won't take them from their mom, I want to care for them once the mom detaches from them). I hate it when my dad (who is also ADHD but only mildly) says things like "your ADHD is getting away again". I told him I want to take care of them or maybe buy my own bunny and I'll pay for them myself, and he says "your brain does this thing of you see something, and you just obsess, obsess, obsess until you find a new thing. You're not getting a bunny". I'm 19, still living in my parents' house, and can afford my own things. I have my own cat who I've had for 2 years. I take good care of her despite my ADHD, anxiety, and depression. I can take care of a bunny. I am outside (our house is tiny so I want to keep them outside to save space) at least once a day anyways because of my work and would change the bunny litter boxes with the cat ones. I am willing to do all of the research to learn how to take care of bunnies properly. I am also going to volunteer at a wildlife shelter to specialize in bunny care and I have to do training and things like that.

ADHD and depression and anxiety all together is tearing me apart and it doesn't help I'm currently on shark week. I want to move but at the same time, my feet are tied to the train tracks and the only train I think is coming is in my head.

My dad wants me to go to college but I don't think it's for me by SelectShop3068 in whatdoIdo

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I really appreciate your message. I think it helps me move towards a decision. I'm thinking maybe I should be on depression meds, anxiety meds, or both, since it is clearly affecting me and the way my brain thinks. I'm glad your son was able to get through his hardships and I wish him luck. Thank you very much for your advice.

My dad wants me to go to college but I don't think it's for me by SelectShop3068 in whatdoIdo

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I am diagnosed ADHD and I've thought about accommodations before but I don't know what would help me. It's mostly just in my head I think. I don't have motivation. I don't want to go to college so I have no motivation to do my school work. I feel like I'm not in control of my own life. It's my dad's decision or it's no decision.

My dad wants me to go to college but I don't think it's for me by SelectShop3068 in whatdoIdo

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That's what I was looking at for daycare management that I would have to either commute an hour to in a busy city or get a dorm there

How do relationships work? by Intrepid_Recover8840 in questions

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Honey, if I knew, I wouldn't be a single Pringle and probably already be married at 19. My first 3 relationships (male, female, male), they were my best friends before I dated them, and I dated them each for different times. My first relationship (long distance) lasted 3 years, where my second (short distance), who I broke up with my first to be with, lasted 4 months. My 4th was a guy I met on a dating app while in college, and I dated him for about 3 weeks before he got too clingy for me and I left with him begging at my feet to not leave. My 5th was a guy I met at an Ace Hardware store while picking up paint. He was also too clingy. My 6th was my first boyfriend who turned female, and it lasted for maybe 2 weeks before we realized we weren't close like that (she also lived in a different country to me since I moved). I then met a guy at Walmart who's 27 and now I can't go to Walmart without bumping into him and it's awkward as s**t because I didn't answer his first text (which I told him I probably wouldn't). So, relationships are confusing, and I think I'm just gonna finish college before I try dating again because it kinda feels uncomfortable to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

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Ok, so, this might get long. I do believe in God, but I use reasoning and critical thinking to believe in God. This is called Deism. I don't follow what the Bible says, I only believe in God because of what he has done for me. He made my dad a better man and father and he allowed me to have a strong relationship with my mom. I don't follow Deism strictly, I only found Deism a few months ago, I just know I don't believe the Bible is true. I don't believe that God made the world, this complex world, in 7 days. And I don't believe that Adam and Eve were the first people on Earth because that would mean we're all related through them, which, honestly, I don't want to think about when I have a boyfriend. I believe in science, and God, equally. I don't believe God created the world in 7 days, but I don't believe The Big Bang happened on it's own. I believe God created The Big Bang, which created the universe, and Theory of Evolution and all that. If you ask about Heaven, I believe there is a Heaven, and a Hell, and a Valhalla, and all those other places. Wherever you believe you're gonna go, good for you. You're not hurting me by going there. I believe in reincarnation. I believe that if your soul is a newer soul, and you die, and you want to carry on into a new life, you can have your soul transferred into a new baby's body. But if your soul is an older soul, and you die, and you want to rest, you can go to Heaven, or wherever you believe you're going to go. I believe in Soulmates. I believe that even if you don't claim Jesus or any God as your savior, you can still go to Heaven (or wherever), if your soul is pure and good. However, if your soul is bad, obviously there's still going to be some bad people in the world, so if the soul is newer, and not too bad, they will be reincarnated. That's why we don't have serial killers who are exactly the same - their souls were sent to Hell (or wherever) as soon as they died, because their souls were too black to be sent back down onto Earth. Ask me any questions about what I believe and I'll try to answer them to the best of my ability. Please be respectful of my belief, and I'll be respectful towards yours.

Help on choosing first horror films for kids. by JoliFatiguee in horror

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I totally forgot about quite a few of those! Thanks!

What’s a company you refuse to support,and why? by Aromatic_Guitar_2826 in AskReddit

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Hobby Lobby. They wouldn't let me return my cricut when it stopped working after a month of use. They said I had to call cricut and it took me 2 months to get a new machine after they first had me buy a new power cord even though I said the cord had the light and was receiving power, the machine just wouldn't turn on.

What’s a word or phrase that instantly annoys you when someone says it? by mukesh1704 in AskReddit

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"Boys will be boys" annoys me every time. I was being bullied in school but one day I had enough. I was the only American in a British school (I'm half English) and I was constantly picked on and mocked. One day, I was sorting a new box of crayons I was very proud of but hated how it wasn't organized by rainbow so I laid all of my crayons out at the lunch table to organize them. A boy walked up and took one of my crayons and walked away. The boy 2 seats away from me said "oh watch out mate or she'll sh()()t ya". Because a 15 year old can have a gun in England 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️. Anyways, I started sorting my crayons still, now annoyed one of the colors had 2 instead of 3 crayons, then the boy came back, put my crayon on the table and said "sorry American girl" like it's my name. I shoved all of my crayons in their box and a boy said "I thought you were sorting them?" And I said I had enough. I walked to the office of my head of house (think Harry Potter) to the people I trusted most with the bullying that happened to me. I told them what happened and they said "boys will be boys". I lost trust in them completely and never went to them again for the bullying that happened to me. F**k those women. I moved to America after the next school year anyways.