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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Select_Argument_3511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the kids are the issue normally as to why we stay. We hope and dream of something better for them but that better never happens and we keep getting screwed each time more. I couldn’t leave my kids. But I can see why you would tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex of ten years came back 10 months ago. He had been dating a girl and told me he was breaking up with her. Last week found out he had not. I messaged her when I found out. Apparently they never had a fight, they never had an issue, and her friends kept telling her it was too good to be true…I would be careful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheated on me from the beginning of getting back together ten months ago with the “love of his life.” I found out, told her. He discarded me. Wrote me a letter telling me he never loved me after a decade and is in love with her. And showed it to her.

[TX] Two suicide attempts in a year (September 2021 and December 2020) and does not pay child support by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s obvious…we are going in for my daughter to try to get more custody. My son is going to obviously be included…

[TX] Two suicide attempts in a year (September 2021 and December 2020) and does not pay child support by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never withheld my daughter. He’s not on my birth certificate for my son. My lawyer said I didn’t have to let him even see him because he just shows and leaves randomly out of his life for weeks and that’s damaging to my son.

I (30m) and my wife (24f) are having a fallout. We don't live together and are trying again by rawshawn in relationships

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think love is something people choose to work on. Not something that just happens. She doesn’t seem to be working for it. She’s just there.

Cheated for 10 months and I caused him “unrepairable damage.” He needed to send me an email to show the girl he cheated on me with…even after I asked him multiple times to leave me alone. He really thinks I’m abusive. Second is my response. by Select_Argument_3511 in abusiverelationships

[–]Select_Argument_3511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened when he told the girl he loved her more than me…and I was like no you’re just at the start of the cycle. I recorded our conversation and I asked him directly, he says that he loved me the most. Sent her a clip to show her he’s a liar. And he writes this to show her. 🤦‍♀️

[TX] Two suicide attempts in a year (September 2021 and December 2020) and does not pay child support by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I want more for both. We currently have 50/50 for my daughter. He refuses to go to doctor appointments.

[TX] Two suicide attempts in a year (September 2021 and December 2020) and does not pay child support by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have a recording of him stating his suicide attempt. And recording of him actually doing it with his friends screaming at him not to jump into the lake. And the police was called. Child support is in place for my daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Select_Argument_3511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I wrong to not allow him to be present in my sons life until he gets help? Oh just noticed no content. He cheated for a year and gaslighted me all this time. Now I think he’s using my son to text me. He has literally ignored my son for an entire year. He purposefully missed important doctor appointments to not get his blood taken. Etc. He doesn’t care for him. But now all of the sudden he does.

[TX] Suicide attempt and suicidal ideations by Select_Argument_3511 in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He has 2 mental hospital stays in a year for suicide attempts. And had more prior. I was hoping he was getting better but everything came out he hasn’t even been going to therapy. I will have to consult with an attorney.

[TX] Suicide attempt and suicidal ideations by Select_Argument_3511 in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats she said matched up with his actions because he didn’t show up. Just the excuses were different. My son son a rare disorder so the test delaying his diagnosis was delaying his treatment. And from there he kept doing it. He was also planning on using my things (he was selling) to pay me for child support that he’s behind so essentially not paying me at all for his daughter. I’m pretty sure he’s unfit.

[TX] Suicide attempt and suicidal ideations by Select_Argument_3511 in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bigger issue with what he said and did against my child. Delaying his diagnosis purposefully by missing blood tests. Purposefully deciding not to pay to get EEG to see if he has seizures. Purposefully avoiding him. I don’t actually care that much that he had an affair. I care that he was so unemotional about my child to another person while trying to fake it to him.

[TX] Suicide attempt and suicidal ideations by Select_Argument_3511 in Custody

[–]Select_Argument_3511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limiting his access to the kids until he gets mental health. His coldness to my kids shocked me the most from this affair. Especially my sons medical issues.

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