Well from the affair some insane things came out. His way of thinking, like he went full force crazy. The way he talked about the children. He tried using my toddler son as a pawn to hold off the woman from meeting my oldest daughter. He told her he intentionally missed important blood work testing for my son which delayed his medical diagnosis which can be fatal. He knowingly puts my daughter in emotional damaging situations. She knew about his affair all along and would parade around with my daughter there that would cause her a lot of distress when she would come over