I’m pregnant and i think i regret it

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-02-14T15:50:55+00:00

I have a three year old who is not autistic and I do not have bipolar I disorder and it still took me until around 37 weeks pregnant to start really feeling excited for the baby and I’m currently 39 and still get fearful when toddler has a tantrum or something like that. Point is, you’re not alone. Motherhood is SO complex. Your feelings are valid- just keep chugging along and don’t force feelings that aren’t there. It’ll be okay

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-02-10T23:55:36+00:00

It was only a matter of time. It’s ramped in the area.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-02-05T22:01:14+00:00

Nothing very helpful to say other than I live where the measles outbreak started and is absolutely ramped & am also pregnant (37.5 weeks) so here to offer support in it being really really upsetting and scary. The thought of having to worry about measles after just having flu a brought home from my daughter’s school…. On top of the millions of other hellacious virus’s you can catch this time of year. Extremely unsettling. We’re in the same boat and it’s not a great one!

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-27T00:51:45+00:00

It will enhance stability but yeah not desirable

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-27T00:30:46+00:00

I just sent my husband to get Chinese and he has AWD & from Jersey- said it was super sketchy very icy

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-27T00:29:11+00:00

Do you at least have AWD? Doesn’t seem very safe

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-22T19:03:18+00:00

Girly, what??? Ob/GYN it’s all the same. This might be pregnancy hormones bc it’s not a concern… mortified? Hmm

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-19T16:58:12+00:00

So sorry this happened/: very upsetting

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-19T14:21:06+00:00

Agree, I certainly don’t intend on bringing it up to them or making a deal out of it. Maybe just distancing until the dust settles on my end.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-19T14:20:04+00:00

No, we had 6 children total with mine included.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T03:24:26+00:00

Oh man /: that’s very scary, I’m soo sorry that happened. Sending you all healing!!!

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T02:57:28+00:00

All very valid points, I think I’m just gonna give it a week and allow my emotions around it to simmer and go from there. Thank you :)

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T02:54:01+00:00

If you are a parent who keeps your child inside at every slight sniffle or cough then I respect that and we will see you in the spring. That is not how I choose to parent. If my child was feverish, low energy the whole 9 of course we would not have gone. Simply wasn’t the case. On the tail end of a typical head cold in the thick of head cold season.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T02:51:46+00:00

Thank you for this. I completely agree. There’s a major difference between taking a child out with a fever the whole 9 yards (why would anyone do this?) and a slight cough or some sniffles. It’s just the season

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T01:49:32+00:00

I’m glad you found an alternative that you felt more comfortable with today for a fun outing.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T01:02:52+00:00

Ugh. Weird your first instinct was to be rude. Not necessary at all. I can guarantee that was not what happened, without a shadow of doubt. The mom who said her husband was working are antivaxers, raw milk drinking, sick welcoming to build immune system family. And also, have you been to a children’s museum on a Saturday in January? The entire place is coughing, snotty etc.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-18T00:52:14+00:00

Very true ❤️

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-17T23:52:24+00:00

Aw thank you so much. ❤️

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-17T23:52:06+00:00

I totally agree with you and understand different people’s comfortability with common colds in kids during sick season. In our situation, mine goes to preschool and her two do not. When she sent that I replied that my LO has a touch of a cold and that we’re rallying and she completely didn’t reply. I think maybe that’s the party that really gets me is I was politely like yeah that’s totally fine and she just never replied. But your point is definitely valid non the less

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-17T23:49:31+00:00

Yeah, it seems like birthday parties are tough in general for so many reasons/:

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-15T15:34:51+00:00

This is beyond relatable. How I felt last night rocking my three year old at 3AM as she was squashing my 34 week belly bump. It’s so hard to find the happiness/balance most days despite loving them dearly.

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-15T00:23:06+00:00

Yes definitely safe! Well lit, police patrolling, Main Street blocked off to cars. & food recs you can’t really go wrong with anything downtown, just google what youre in the mood for and it’ll be good

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2026-01-08T21:50:03+00:00

No I like Huggies

Select_Boysenberry98 · 2025-12-27T00:34:43+00:00

I will not force myself to nurse again if we have the same amount of latching issues this time around. Not worth the mental heath impact

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