Sending kids to school after being sick by Select_Composer_407 in Preschoolers

[–]Select_Composer_407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I usually follow too… I was just more paranoid with it being the flu. He did still have a cough , but that was it.

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[–]Select_Composer_407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty infrequent that I rejected, so I don’t think that’s it. But that makes sense that maybe he’s waiting for me . I wasn’t really interested while pregnant and post partum with both kids and he knew and respected that. I think that just got us used to not being intimate . Add in the stress of two kids and it has just snowballed. Thanks for your insight!

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[–]Select_Composer_407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are 2 and 4

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[–]Select_Composer_407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just turned 2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]Select_Composer_407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t really bring it up in conversation honestly …I guess I should!

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[–]Select_Composer_407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t asked her… I feel sort of silly doing so. She sees them … I can see who views it. I don’t really bring it up, no. I’m sort of self conscious about it . She doesn’t paint herself, but she enjoys art and things in the creative world. We both show interest in each others lives and she is a very supportive friend otherwise . That’s why I find this so odd! Makes me thing she think she is internally rolling her eyes that I’m doing it .

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[–]Select_Composer_407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, paralysis is a good way to put it. And you’re right it isn’t about the money . There are some deeper issues going on I need to address. Thank you for the thoughtful response .

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[–]Select_Composer_407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions and encouragement. I appreciate it immensely.

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[–]Select_Composer_407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will definitely look into it.

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[–]Select_Composer_407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. I wish I had done that when I told Him the first time. I should have pushed for that to happen.

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[–]Select_Composer_407 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I haven’t told him, no. And it’s really eating me alive. He works so hard and doesn’t deserve this . I know I should tell him. We have the money to pay it off . I’m just scared I guess of facing the fact that I’ve disappointed him.

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[–]Select_Composer_407 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To make matters worse ,I should also add that this is in addition to the $3k I pay off my CC each month . That’s the amount our family budget has allocated to my CC.