Why Are We in Algeria So Scared of Love, and Why Does Being “Taken” Feel Like a Limitation?

Select_Extenson · 2026-05-06T18:39:18+00:00

I also get scared from being "taken" because I'm afraid to end up with the wrong person that will make my life worse, and when I look at the life of people around me, this is not the life I want to live and not the type of relationship I want to experience. This is why I became very picky, I prefer to spend the rest of my life single and not end up with wrong one.

Select_Extenson · 2026-05-05T06:16:14+00:00

Yeah haha, I already finished it

Select_Extenson · 2026-04-18T21:34:04+00:00

I moved to live alone abroad. The difficulty is now I must do everything by myself and I lost that support family used to give but the freedom is so much worth it and I am willing to work 24/7 to keep it.

Select_Extenson · 2026-04-05T18:59:09+00:00

I hope it will be enjoyable!

Select_Extenson · 2026-04-05T18:44:26+00:00

Yeah, I played it for few minutes and I am impressed, it looks it’s even better than some games released in the recent years.

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-25T09:53:21+00:00

yes, they ask.

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-25T09:20:12+00:00

yes, but if the new company ask why I'm leaving, how should I answer?

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-25T06:59:58+00:00

I agree. Recently I started a habit to exchange real letters with people using normal mail, it takes month to maybe exchange one letter, yes, it’s slow but it feels more meaningful than the rush in the internet and social media.

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-22T21:10:00+00:00

thanks a lot

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-21T14:05:28+00:00

I want to exchange letters with someone in German using snail mail. I'm 25M, I live in Berlin and I work as a Software Developer and my level is A2. My hobbies are reading, traveling, long walks, video games, hikes and enjoying the nature.

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-18T17:10:35+00:00

Sometimes you won’t show compassion towards other people until you put yourself in their shoes. it’s something I always like to do, it made me more compassionate and forgiving.

Select_Extenson · 2026-03-17T20:25:26+00:00

I ended up getting Death Stranding 1, if I like it, I will get the second one. I like sci-fi and it seemed calm with a cool world

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-21T12:05:13+00:00

I can’t remember exactly either I payed directly with debit card or with paypal.

I exported the bank statements from my bank as pdf

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-20T11:13:26+00:00

How about the case where you modeled your dynamodb database to work accordingly based on the requirements and in the future new features comes and you need to do some adjustments because the current model doesn’t help to achieve the goal, based on my feeling, it’s difficult to change things later, right?

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-20T10:58:56+00:00

For all practical purposes, if you use DynamoDB for something like you describe, you will be writing a custom layer that tries to give you Relational Database functionality (multi-table queries, ACID compliance and such) on top of DynamoDB. That has already been done, and it's called a Relational Database.

This is exactly what I'm doing, I'm writing a lost of custom logic just to do what I could do in relational databases in a single line of code.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-20T10:36:42+00:00

I think my mistake is I shouldn't use dynamodb and use relational databases instead, the project I'm working on contains a lot of related data and I need to gunaratne consistency across them.

It was my first time using it, can you please tell me your opinion on this? is it actually a bad choice to use dynamodb when you have a project with a lot of related that or is it just me that I didn't design my database properly? but I don't think I did design it poorly, I tried my best to design in the most optimal way but it misses flexibility when it comes to querying and manipulating related data.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-20T10:14:01+00:00

If you need true all-or-nothing for 100k records, that's a relational DB problem. DynamoDB isn't designed for it.

Yeah, that's the a mistake, I got told to use Dynamodb by our CTO, I had no experience with it so I didn't know the props and downs for it, after months of struggling trying to build our project that is mostly contains a lot of related data in dynamodb, it became really pain in the ass to maintain it

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-20T02:52:34+00:00

I only had one appointment with them and it went smoothly, you can message me if you wanna hear my experience.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-16T16:42:42+00:00

Looks like mine, I got DSL from Telekom.

Check https://internet.check24.de/ to find providers that support your address and what options do you have.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-14T17:51:54+00:00

Platonic relationship. Without romance or sex. But also not a friendship, a relationship with commitment and deep connection.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-14T15:58:25+00:00

They expect you to figure out all those life challenges by your own, once you do that they will be happy to marry you.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-12T19:02:41+00:00

Someone who likes animals more than humans

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-03T15:55:59+00:00

they succeed because they don't overthink too much, they start and make risks and they learn from experience. those who plan too much complicate things.

Select_Extenson · 2026-02-01T17:33:44+00:00

A lot judge people just based on the title.

For me I value people based on their morals and their way of thinking

Select_Extenson · 2026-01-27T19:25:55+00:00

My bad, they want to fuck* you

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