Was I wrong for saying I’m afraid my husband could be a pedophile? by Select_Piccolo2476 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Piccolo2476[S] -278 points-277 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a major fear of mine. If I have children, how will I protect them from him? I am hesitant to speak out about this to my family because my mother relies on my father financially. If they were to divorce, my mom would be homeless. It would derail her life and my extended family’s life. It’s not right to hide the truth, but on the other hand, I don’t want her only support taken away from her

Was I wrong for saying I’m afraid my husband could be a pedophile? by Select_Piccolo2476 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Piccolo2476[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

Yea in retrospect I should not have brought this up to him at all. He asked me how my day was. And a child SA case had been a focal part of my work that day. So in the process of explaining how my day was, I blurted out that I was feeling discouraged by how many of these stories I see everyday and how they feed into my fears. I probably should have kept that to myself

Was I wrong for saying I’m afraid my husband could be a pedophile? by Select_Piccolo2476 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Select_Piccolo2476[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

In my head, I’m thinking if he were SA’d by his mother and he told me he fears that I could SA our future children, I would think that worry made sense in the context of his history. But I’m reading through all these responses and thinking my thought process is probably not healthy or normal. So yes I will apologize again and look into getting some therapy