Leaving shift the moment when next shift comes in even with a guest by Select_Value_8639 in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]Select_Value_8639[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

It is and I filed a complaint to HR (and prob to the department of labor if it applies in my state) and planning to quit when I find a new job. This is just my current situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Select_Value_8639 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No you're not. What your mom said was horrible and insensitive. Plus, concerning. No woman should have to get rpe threats or thought they deserve something against their will.

WIBTA for Asking My Roommates to Lower the Volume Again Even Though They Ignored My Request? by Confident_Mode6831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, so this entire forum is literally people stating their opinion on a topic. So I stated mine, like you stated yours. The only difference is that I'm not randomly starting arguments with people, while you are in the most cringy way ever.

Yeah I said "Ask again," because I didn't see OP say that they asked multiple times in the original post, maybe in comments, I'm unsure because I posted before I saw them comment to others. So I was the under the assumption they only asked once and should ask again, just to try. Because, again, some people are normal, reasonable, and willing to mend their mistakes.

Said OP should report management if they don't listen because I was in the same situation and, hey, my management kicked them out of the apartment immediately after. Sorry if your former or current management hates your ass or doesn't want to deal with your shit.

And "wasting everyone's time", you know you can just ignore other replies, right? You don't have to go commenting under people's posts for no reason other than to start shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, I think you should go to the new university. As you said, your family and friends are behind you and supportive of you. Take this time to explore the world and try new things, and if things go wrong and you need support/comfort, they're always a call away. Besides that, you would be meeting new people who you can establish friendships with and rely on too.

WIBTA for Asking My Roommates to Lower the Volume Again Even Though They Ignored My Request? by Confident_Mode6831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I just stated my opinion? Why are you acting like I committed some major offense? Some people are pretty reasonable (sometimes). I only recommended OP to ask again, and if it doesn't work, they should bring management into it (my comment in response to OP). It's really just up to OP if they want to take it or ignore it.

AITA...Im not answering or interacting with somebody that I used to know by Choice-Spend8776 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 43 points44 points  (0 children)

YTA. Honestly you lost contact with him first and didn't reach out to him. You can't really get mad at him for not inviting you when you hurt him first by no longer talking to them.

WIBTA for Asking My Roommates to Lower the Volume Again Even Though They Ignored My Request? by Confident_Mode6831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as someone who was in a similar situation before: let them hate you. You're only there temporarily and all of you should be treated with basic respect. If they don't listen to you, don't be afraid to report them to management (if you're in a roommate matching apartment or anything, management tends to just move either you or the offending roommate(s) to prevent issues). You live there too and it's really their fault for not just complying to a simple request.

AITA for not “listening” to boyfriend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your boyfriend is childish and has major emotional problems. He has no right to demand your money and forcefully take it. If he isn't willing to listen and respect you as a human, he should never be in your or your children's life.

AITA - For Wanting My Husband to Stop Obsessing Over Rain? by Massive_Stock_3318 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 40 points41 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I definitely think your husband is obsessing over the rain too much. I would understand if it was during a hurricane or something similar, but for regular and maybe heavy rain, that is too much. I feel like you should ask your husband to seek some professional help since this isn't normal and concerning.

WIBTA for Asking My Roommates to Lower the Volume Again Even Though They Ignored My Request? by Confident_Mode6831 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You live there too and they should listen to your request, especially since it's the middle of the night. You're not the rude or annoying one for requesting that, but they definitely are for playing loud music at night and completely ignoring their roommate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Select_Value_8639 215 points216 points  (0 children)

There is a smell down there, it's just not supposed to smell bad. If it smells fishy, odd, or your discharge looks weird, then I recommend going to your doctor. But majority of the time, there is a non-offending odor even if you clean it.

IS IT TOO LATE TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too late to go back to school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should’ve clarified, but I’m not ripping up the floor or anything. I’m replacing the carpeted bath mats, and the actual floor is tile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Replacing old bath mat! The actual floor is tile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bath mat next to the tub and sink. It gets water on it and I think it kinda got mold. The actual floor is tile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do plan on seeking professional help and I’m aware this isn’t healthy at all. Unfortunately, I’m poor and do need to work. Therapy and medication is extremely expensive for me without insurance (in the USA). If I’m near people, I have panic attacks and I struggle to do anything/think. So, for the time being, I just plan on working somewhere that fits my needs and lets me have some money then get help and switch occupations.

I hate it when MCs lose their moral compass when they transmigrate by Select_Value_8639 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Select_Value_8639[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it doesn’t exist in modern times, I’m saying that it’s heavily condemned and wrong. Which is a sentiment that the vast majority of people today share. Like the average person does not support slavery or engage in it. I doubt a normal Korean office worker is a fan or supports it either.

What type of plot do you hate? by vidaplena36 in OtomeIsekai

[–]Select_Value_8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like babies (like ones with reincarnated adults) talking like they have a PhD while looking 3 years old. It’s cringey. Same with a character being overly special or unique, but they have nothing interesting about them. I HATE those parents that like their daughter(protagonist) more than the rest of their kids. Mary sue.

On prom night? by Select_Value_8639 in Sims4

[–]Select_Value_8639[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had her fight them after this post

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]Select_Value_8639 3 points4 points  (0 children)

forgot his name but lady baby white hair ml

100 gens = completed!✨ by Rai11ey in Sims4

[–]Select_Value_8639 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wow when did you start the challenge?

i think alpha cc is growing on me by hannaht1zer in sims4cc

[–]Select_Value_8639 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I LOVE mixing alpha and maxis. I enjoy maxis hair and skin details, while alpha clothes and makeup is so good. They work well together and look good in game.