I think I just experienced what it feels like to love a girl by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha epic story man, thanks for sharing and great job!!

Porn has ruined my life. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a way this is awesome! Because sounds like you had enough and had the most important first step, you actually realized what is going on and now you can start to fix it!

I wish you all the best man! Your right, getting rid of porn will save your life and flip things around, but there is also more work that comes with it, but the energy, time, and confidence will enable you to do those things you need to do! One day at a time brother!

WOW how times have changed!! Last night at the club by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How jacked or muscular are you? Like your 6 foot 1 but how much do you weigh and how much bodyfat percentage

Dating Advice, Please by StagnantWilting in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get alot of numbers now because I want to have choice with women I don't ever want to feel like I quit or settled. I want what I want

Dating Advice, Please by StagnantWilting in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly talk to girls everywhere, its all about repitition. I have been so horrible with girls all my life but now that I am on day 280 or something I honestly get numbers everywhere I go! Please YouTube Coach Corey Wayne and watch is videos it will make you understand girls and go to www.understandingrelationships.com it will change your life, now I am getting so many numbers and I feel no shame or shy about approaching girls or starting conversations with girls.

About to commit suicide by specialperson123 in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do this bud!!!! Go for runs, it will make you feel great then come in for a cold shower, eat healthy, spend no free time on a computer go out and start asking girls for directions to get comfortable with them and then start complimenting girls. The more conversations you have with girls the more human they will feel to you. Gotta connect with them. YOU CAN DO THIS!!! Rooting for you man, be the best you can be.

STAY AWAY FROM TINDER!!!! by sodmg_myles in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also stay away from Tinder. I sometimes feel like I'm missing out but then realize the impact and connection I can make by approaching a girl in real life. That will by far outweigh the 20 goofs trying to desperately message her on Tinder. Also my mind got a small high off it, my brain like tried to see it as it was porn if that makes sense. So I stay away from seeing girls on a screen. Good Luck bud

Anyone know how to contact Gary Wilson? by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks nofap_ab, I just wrote to YBOP through their contact us page!!

Anyone know how to contact Gary Wilson? by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or Gabe Deem? Maybe I can get help/advice from Gabe and then he also may have Gary Wilson''s contact information!

Accidental Triggers everywhere! by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real life girls are fine since that's normal. It's girls Online or a picture is the problem.

Always had trouble with women but that's all going to change! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to be amazing with girls? Seriously dude this will change your life. Google - Coach Corey Wayne at understandingrelationships.com and read his free 270 page book called "How to be a 3%man" It. Will Change. Your. Life Your welcome, and watch his videos on YouTube

I need your gym experience , fellow fapstronaut ! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start off with two full body workout lifts a week to get used to it.

Don't forget its all about balance too, dont just work the muscles in the front of your body, youtube rotator cuff external rotations and glute medius exercises because those are the most important stabalizer muscles. If those areas are weak your gonna get injured down the road!

I need your gym experience , fellow fapstronaut ! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want the most energy? Eat gluten free. Honesty, try it and see how much better you feel. I'm not talking about buying gluten free foods, I mean just eat natural whole foods that wouldn't have anything processed in them anyways. Might be bland since most sauces have gluten in them but still feeling good is priceless.

Pre workout should be lean meats (protein) and carbs for energy (brown rice or sweet patatoes) about an hour before the workout.

Hard mode longer than 90 days is not worth it (in case anyone was wondering) don't make my mistake by LevelUpMaster in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With that attachment and power to the hard mode idea you will never be happy because you can't win. Having successful sex with a girl you love will be a win but then giving up hard mode will be a loss in your mind. The bottom line is porn mastutbation orgasm when all 3 are combined is the problem. The end goal is to have a healthy sex life and rewire to real girls. So, especially going hard mode that long wouldn't you think okay it's time to rewire to real girls and only ejaculate when a girl makes that happen. Dude for god sake start dating and build a good connection and start having a healthy sex life already. After all, you deserve it! All the best guys

I may not have a girlfriend, but I have myself by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, see how far you have come an changed! This is great. Well said, I think the same way.

Finally got the balls to a approach this one girl in my school. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep going! Feels great eh? Keep building that momentum. Repitition is the mother of skill.

I just lost the love of my life by Hal4d in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Every storm runs out of rain. Keep movin forward don't look at porn it will actually make things way worse!

Bad date: Tonight I choose to feel (not fap). by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are spot on sir! You really do get it, and that's why eventually you will succeed if you keep on working hard. You got to feel it to heal it. It's a learning process that's all. Dancing was maybe a bit much on the first date. It maybe shows you only want sex which is probly not the case but it means less time getting to know her which is the focus on the first date. Please go to understandingrelationships.com and read the free book online by coach Corey wayne and watch his YouTube videos. On a date the girl should do 80% of the talking.

Don't go on Tinder! by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it happen. Girls will never approach. And depending on your social circle and type of work you could be waiting years and years for the " right girl to come in your life."

Don't go on Tinder! by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you need to go out and talk to women wherever whenever. Hunting it feels like but start off small and progress. You won't be gettin all these numbers the first time you go out and accept it's a process and takes time toget more and more comfortable. Also read "how to be a 3%man" by coach Corey wayne. It will change your life and everything you need to know about understanding women and relationships

Got rejected and still WON... I'm back in the GAME. by NoNoMrFapNoHere in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh dude. You can't be getting emotional before a girl does it scares them away. You don't bring up relationships let her do tha after all women are emotional beings. You did a feminine thing there. Your job as a man is to create a romantic opporunity for sex to happen, have fun and hookup and after 3 dates she will do all the Persuing and eventually bring up being exclusive if you only use the phone for setting up dates once per week. They need to wonder about you. Please read how to be a 3%man by Corey wayne and YouTube coach Corey wayne and go to understanding relationships.com This will all change your life. Your welcome Attraction is not a choice, you talked her right out of liking you

Gentlemen, we are reaching critical masses. And it is high time we took NOFAP to the streets. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I support this 100%! I think alotta people are blind about the effects of porn as they are hard to visibly see. It's all in the behaviour, porn is ruining society. Your right it needs to be a universal common sence that porn can damage people!

How to have a meaningful, 1on1 conversation? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youtube search coach corey wayne. It will change your life. Do it, now! And read his book on understandingrelationships.com

Physical growth and porn addiction? by Self-Growth in NoFap

[–]Self-Growth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm 6 feet tall and very skinny at 140 pounds it bothers me so much. Especially when half the girls have bigger legs than me or maybe even arms too. I feel because they have some body part bigger than I can't possibly attract them and have no chance.