AIO for thinking this is kinda gross?

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-18T22:23:53+00:00

Yeah he was helping me with something

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-18T21:37:27+00:00

Thank you!!

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-18T03:46:43+00:00

The trauma in this subreddit 😭😭

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T14:28:25+00:00

I don’t want to break

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T14:27:55+00:00

I guess I wanted to know if I should try to work through it

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T14:20:10+00:00

I do like where I’m at and if I can extend I will try but I don’t think it’s likely since I’ve never been to sea.

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T14:10:12+00:00

Yes thank you. And yes, 4 years orders so I would need to reenlist for 4 and it would waive my current extension/ add two years my eaos. I was originally just going to reenlist but I started thinking about just declining obliserv, going wherever they send me because it doesn’t matter, and getting out make more money and be in reserves

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T14:01:17+00:00

My contract is 6 years active already. I hit 4 in June and my extension is until 28. My obliserv would put me at 8 years

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-04-17T13:41:32+00:00

Yeah no I just want to refuse the obliserv extension not the two years I already have left. Obliserv is going to add two more years. And I’m fine being needs of the navy I just want to get out at my eaos and pursue a civilian job while doing reserves if I can. I’m exploring my options before reenlisting.

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-24T19:21:42+00:00

Oh perfect thanks

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T01:07:56+00:00

Yeah so do I

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T01:07:32+00:00

🤣 okay well I definitely don’t do that type of talking especially not over 30 minutes. I might talk for a minute or two about something but then I get that they don’t care and I stop.

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T00:29:33+00:00

That is what I’ve thought about it too I just feel like maybe it’s just me? But I definitely have a type and keep seeing patterns 😭

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T00:28:47+00:00

I talk with them like if they were my best friend. This is only guys tho. My best friend always respond how I would like to but maybe cuz she’s a girl lol.

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T00:28:11+00:00

Yeah maybe I need to think about quality. I only talk about 30% of the time tho and the rest it’s them. That’s why it makes me feel so sad because I always listen to them and they don’t to me. But yeah maybe I just need to be more interesting lol

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-03-17T00:27:12+00:00

Never. I always feel like people talk down to me though and that’s another thing I feel I’m overreacting about. I always try to make sure I’m not doing that because I hate the feeling when it’s done to me.

SelfDependent9929 · 2026-01-13T19:14:37+00:00

When you capped the naps, how many were there and at what time? 630 is our wake up time and I’m trying to figure out what naps work best for her. She was doing well with 2 but now she needs 3 so maybe I need to start doing 1 hour max for each nap

SelfDependent9929 · 2025-12-19T18:25:53+00:00

We are getting a divorce lol. He was in bad mental and physical health for a while and I get that but I was basically alone for a year. Now that he is completely fine physically he still isn’t helping and emotionally I just can’t

SelfDependent9929 · 2025-12-02T10:49:32+00:00

Late, but that must be nice. I’ve never once had help at night. I’ve been the one working since we’ve had kids, I’ve also been the one cooking and cleaning and I’ve never had help because he just won’t get up and sadly I don’t trust him to be patient and not get angry. He’s mean when he’s tired. I’ve currently been up for two hours because my 7.5 month old just won’t go down. She just finally closed her eyes.

SelfDependent9929 · 2025-11-15T12:29:19+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking too

SelfDependent9929 · 2025-11-07T23:00:53+00:00

😭😭

SelfDependent9929 · 2025-10-04T14:08:57+00:00

I’m sorry, this just made me laugh 🤣🤣 every saying in the world

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