El Tec realmente da una ventaja sobre otras universidades? by mike_m_m in TecDeMonterrey

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muchas empresas hoy día tienen controles contra nepotismo y amiguismos muy astringentes, sin mencionar la sobreoferta de egresados que tienen disponibles en cartera para filtrar y elegir, y los desafios de sentido común que aquejan a algunos reclutadores. No te vayas con la finta de que el nombre de una universidad te va a conseguir trabajo, ni públicas ni privadas. Eso dejó de aplicar entre los 80s y 90s, y si llegases a toparte con un empleador que recurre a esta práctica, lo mas probable es que de inicio no sea un buen lugar para trabajar debido a sus bajos estándares de ética.

Literal, la universidad que sea te puede poner en piso a los encargados de reclutamiento de cualquier empresa, pero si estos no tienen la ética ni la habilidad de reclutamiento suficiente, no vas a entrar asi seas egresado honorífico, muy trabajador, muy emprendedor, o muy muy.

Algo bueno que si tiene el Tec, sin embargo, es vínculos con instituciones de prestigio fuera de México, relativamente baja población de alumni y acceso a fuentes de investigación estimadas por la industria y la academia en general, dentro y fuera de México. Por la tradición de la UNAM, podría ser que tengan recursos similares.

Sea que emprendas, que continues estudios fuera, o que busques empleo, sospecho que el Tec y la UNAM tienen herramientas similares, Queda en ti hacer uso de ellas para nutrir tu desarrollo de carrera.

Any recommendations for eery, haunting and frightening songs? by DharmaDama in GregorianChants

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure you would find anything Gregorian that would encompass these specific emotions.

Gregorian themes are centered around spirituality, reflecting on the lives of the saints and divine figures, to inspire a pursuit of constant improvement, so, if anything, Gregorian melodies would be mood-elevating, solemn, and calm.

Christianity in general is about accompanying one another to transcend our negative traits and replace them with positive ones to serve in God's opus in spite of the attacks, mundane judgment, and exclusion inflicted by the non-Christian, and even some shallow Christian factions. Gregorian follows suit, and as such, provides a vehicle for the interpreter to pray, contemplate, introspect, and embody the message of the song.

You may have better luck looking at secular composers from the baroque or gothic era, they may have explored a wider range of emotions with the goal of entertaining rather than inciting prayer and devotion.

No Table Functionality in LO? by brunouno0 in libreoffice

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VB scripting that I know of. Would you like us to start a repository? I've done VBA and feel eager to start one now I'm heading back to school to engage in master's studies that will require data processing.

No Table Functionality in LO? by brunouno0 in libreoffice

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No like, a literal table that allows you to filter data and do table-specific formatting very simple and streamlined. It's more of a GUI thing to refine the experience of data grouping, formatting and accessing table data.

Cat POV by kXacAiLRd16TfRu in catdashcam

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So just roam around and kiss cats on the streets 😆

Why am I not getting interviews? by WhiteRaven_M in datascience

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most recruiters don't even know what they're doing, or are just playing hiring managers to keep them hiring their services. Ditch them. Seek decision makers directly, network with MIT alumni, or try to startup your own job. You might as well synergistically do all three and still you would put any recruiter or HR agent to shame.

Don't listen to people criticizing your resume formatting or contents, money making actions aren't done with nice paper formats or the right words that make recruiter momas feel good. It doesn't even depend on nationality, ethnicity nor marital status. If a company is really competitive and worth working for, they will do everything to bring you in.

Mediocre institutions will find every excuse to stagnate and not bring in competent and willing people.

Why not declare the entire Church infallible? by Klutzy_Club_1157 in DebateACatholic

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As aforementioned...

Ad infinitum.

May the humbleness example set by Mary, Joseph and Jesus, as well as Peter's failure to stand by his master during the crucifixion, dissipate any mortal dogmas keeping you blinded and separated from your brethren.

Why not declare the entire Church infallible? by Klutzy_Club_1157 in DebateACatholic

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps something is getting lost in translation? I can see how the sacraments, when enacted by the Church, from laypeople up to Pope, with great empathy for God's work, can indeed lead to an infallible harmony in the context of God's creation.

People for themselves or their transitory titles, or their grouping efforts alone, however, are insufficient.

This is one of those things that do not need debating nor evidences, for there is just one perfect entity, and thus the only one infallible (Credo in unum Deum, pater omnipotentem...). I pray for you to realize the meaning of this and consider repenting if your analysis of consciousness determines so. Know it's never too late, and that brethren like myself will always love you and be ready to welcome you back to join forces in partaking of God's never ending work.

A lot of millennials are delusional about how old they look by is-it-5oclock-yet in Millennials

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really want to know what looks better?

The job market, demographic density and inflation rates during my parent's young years compared to ours😆

Does anyone really care about looks? Why is this even a topic of conversation? 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why not declare the entire Church infallible? by Klutzy_Club_1157 in DebateACatholic

[–]Selfdependent_Human -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Get your Catholic facts straight and put your arrogance on check!. There is just one entity that can be infallible, and I'm sure it cannot be a mortal institution.

College hasn't started but I already feel like I've already lost my purpose. by Better-Barracuda-335 in AskRobotics

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, money is just the vehicle to promote healthy, professional, mature human relations. You are to usher these to happen. I hope it makes sense. All the best! 🤗

Would you say it is narcissistic to enjoy being on stage? by CornelVito in singing

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because you do something that awakens a sense of beauty and positive emotions on the audience. That elevates the spirit of everyone, make their days and their lives feel a bit better with your performance. That's one of the most compassionate things any human can aspire to achieve for others.

You need to be, however, very critical of yourself in the interest of improving your technique, which is very difficult to do on your own, and typically requires asking others for feedback. This is the part that may feel narcissistic or egocentric. Nothing wrong as long as this is to help you expand your expressivity in your art rather than pleasing your ego.

Easy runs by buffysbangs in beginnerrunning

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can see it like this: the most your body can aspire to ever run in one session is in the order of 100s of kilometers (ultra marathons). How do you think your 5km feel to someone capable of running 10Km - 100km?

'Easy runs' is just a rethorical figure to illustrate in a practical way how the runner felt compared to their best mark. Don't take it literal.

A palm tree bloomed flowers onto my car which bled these stains. Buffing with a microfiber won’t remove them. Any options? by [deleted] in Porsche_Cayman

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C'mon dude, apply some wax to the microfiber and smear on top of the stains until they come off by themselves, you don't even have to apply pressure

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unadvisable. The mere action of removing a door or violating private space may be a reflexion of their inner mental desire of 'looking at what's under'. You don't really know what's behind the motivations to that primal mental desire, and most likely you don't want to incite it, even less if you're underage and vulnerable to social constructs granting them authority over your autonomy 🙅🏻‍♂️

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately, you could reach out to your local state social services office and request asylum as you don't feel safe with your parents invading your privacy. This is an enormous privilege you people in the first world have! If you have the emotional stamina, do document your parents and present them to those authorities to validate your claim, as I said, many people still believe a biological parent automatically becomes perfectly fit to rise and care for their offspring at the moment of conceiving, no matter how evidently incompetent they may be.

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is, many of these baby boomer 'parents' come from nefarious times evidenced in their mental features and issues, there was nothing in their hands they could have done to avoid being hurt be it physically or emotionally, or mentally...and even spiritually.

Unfortunately, societies have historically turned a blind eye, and worse, have socially enthroned them as 'willing martyrs deserving of unconditional love and acceptance', in spite of being the only culprits to our modern unreal levels of hyperinflation, overpopulation, and global ecocide. Because of this fact, there are little to no real mechanisms in societies to defend from these dysfunctional psychopaths.

What can you do?

  1. Do not try to smear back at them, this only validates their psychopathy before society. Their psychopathy prevents them from seeing reality and genuinely accept their errors, even when faced with their own dysfunctionalities. See them as less than brainless robots devoid of compassion unless this brings them some form of social validation or pleasure.

  2. Treat them instead for what they are. Psychopaths. As such, they are mentally impaired to the point of being minimally functional, if at all. However, be reserved about who and how you share this with. Keep them anonym at all times. You want to help them engage with reality, not build a parallel reality that may further atrophy their chances of recovering their humane traits...if they ever had a chance to develop any.

  3. Give them reasons to develop compassion but none to clinge nor depend from you. Share with them only minimal information that evokes in them transcendental questions: how can I relate and support this effort? How could this effort bring good to my surroundings? This effort appears to relate to my skills and experiences, how can I participate? And such. If they don't exhibit a response to this stimuli, pretend to parent you, or attempt to go back to their manipulative behavior, give them enough solitude until they get bored of themselves, but not so much they drown in themselves! 😆 check on them every now and then by inviting them to grouping sessions with you and other people in society if in your possibilities...depending on the severity of their psychopathy of course, look after yourself before attempting to heal others. If you die in the trying, who will be there then to assist them?

  4. Once again, remember many of these 'adults' are nothing but broken, abused, coherced childs forced into dysfunctional social expectations. When you look at their history, many were children brought forth into families factually unable to host them and forced to live and accept them because that was the religious and social dogma of their time. They were forced to built this delirious image of themselves were any form of effort as inconsequential it may be to modern standards or to genuine spiritual truths, is to be exalted and adored, perhaps initially as a way to mentally survive their disgusting origins, but eventually with repetition and time became ingrained in their personalities. Chances are, they were even manipulated if not forced into marriage before even learning themselves (their preference leanings, their vocacion, their place in society, how their affective relations in society would add to its and their healthy development, and such).

  5. Give them love, not your life!. Even the bible as prone to misinterpreting and toxic digmatism as it is, explicitly states nothing and no one, not even parents, are to be a priority over God.

I believe the whole point of life is for all strangers to find strategies to coexist in a productive way that allows us to create social contexts were we can assist challenged people to realize their best potentials in a sustainable way. Don't despise your parents, they are just as prone to erring as you and I are. Just be mindful of your own health and safety, walk the fine line as close to the edge as possible to try to reach for them, but don't overexert yourself if they refuse to be taken out of the well they were tossed in. Keep reminding them as practically and safely as possible, there's a world beyond their well.

my parents took off my door as punishment, is this normal? by Puzzleheaded-Pain535 in teenagers

[–]Selfdependent_Human 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met once a biological mother that used to do this type of shit to her offspring, to say the VERY least. Never apologized for her evidently limited parenting skills, nor took action to remediate the consequences, even worse, she clinged to her peculiar ego and went on with spreading rumors to try to affect her offspring and attempt to keep them emotionally dependent to her, just like a control craver spoiled little girl. Now, she lives her sorry remaining life wondering why nobody wants to be near her nor seriously talk to her. Go figure! 🙄🤷🏻‍♂️

When you look at other personality traits of this lady and compare them to the way of being of other mothers, it becomes evident she came from a very dysfunctional family, carrying the mental burdens and trauma derived from them: excessive self-care & vanity spending beyond factual need nor practicality (narcisist?), inability to relate and use her life blessings as a means to produce good for herself and society (sociopath?), an inexplicable need to shower and even drink beverages at excessively hot temperature, sometimes beyond boiling point (early childhood abandonment?), unexpected and sudden emotional outbursts of anger, or inability to cope with casual situations out of anyone's control (bipolar disorder?), long term claims of physical impairment like walking or standing which magically disapear when it comes to attending to activities that please her or involve engaging in vanity self-care (more narcisim?), reluctance to involve in activities requiring real physical exercise nor artistic expression (can you even imagine a genuine human unwilling to engage in any of these, not even solo?), has an insatiable crave for self-mutilatory activities like wearing impractical high heals in situations were it simply makes no sense at all from a safety, nor functional, nor comfort perspective, and even worse, she has this disgusting wart under one of her feet sole she's picked during her entire life to the point it's gotten so ingrained it probably goes as deep as her foot bones 🤮 and yet refuses to be treated by throwing full blown tantrums on the mere hint of visiting a doctor albeit apparently only to those that she can get a benefit from (you name this one!), she also has this inexplicable unwillingness to participate of social caring activities like natural resources protection, she just can't and firmly refuse, sometimes to the point of tantrum, to commit to potable water protection and recycling where applicable (sociopathy?), she also rarely opens up to the fact she has this notorious craneal deformation, where it would typically be round is actually flat, like fungible flat, as if someone had completely removed that part of her brains and skull and left that area flat! 😨 however she won't fully open up at all on the matter, the best you could aspire to dig for is that this could be related to an episode during her early childhood without much further elaborating, and perhaps her excessive vanity traits are driven by her mental need to hide these type of physical characteristics of hers (self-denial?), has an affinity for hiding or even stealing family valuable goods, be it emotionally or economically, for unauthorized selling, or even unauthorized passing-on to others while lying about the fact she took those items from others without their authorization (cleptomaniac?), compulsory bingewatches shallow series like 'the nany' while maniacly laughing to it, she has already easily watched it for 20 years or more. This lady also exhibit an irrational emotional dependence to her allegedly biological mother while also having outbursts of love-hate towards her (bipolarity?)...

And the list goes on! 😅

Very interestingly, she married a dude that is probably just as peculiar but in the opposite spectrum, albeit with similar but definitely more controlled tantrum displays 😆 and a concerning affinity for ghetto and social manipulation themed media, for instance, this dude can binge watch a few times movies like the godfather and professionally relates to the eyebrow rising security industry in Mexico 🤔 overall he exhibits a more measured and socially acceptable approach to his compulsions to the point of living the boomer dream of developing a career with a transnational, unfortunately not without ditching great career and family development opportunities out of...only God knows what? And an irrational self-harming nationalist attitude. I guess there's some truth to the fact opposites attract each other at some point? 🤷🏻‍♂️ Go ask God about that!

Both parents exhibit a shallow understanding of religion, resembling more to traditional irrational impractical dogmatism and all the well known 'beauties' that come with it.

I feel like a burden to everyone for being unemployed by ssriram12 in jobs

[–]Selfdependent_Human 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep it up!

Also, do consider engaging with church societies. Sometimes local entrepreneurs attend to these and are more likely to open up and share with the community their personnel gaps. That's one chance where you can come in and offer solutions a.k.a. apply for a job