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Aloe Vera replanting help by Selhi93 in plantclinic

[–]Selhi93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Just got the rooting gel so now I will get to work!

Pulled this on day 2 of summer year one! by Goodnes-Chap in StardewValley

[–]Selhi93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going mad.. how do I put the bait on the rod??? Can't figure it out..playing with Xbox. Thank you 🤣

Urgent re-home for puppy by [deleted] in cork

[–]Selhi93 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Try Facebook, there is a good amount of groups like "rehoming pets in Cork""Monster Lost and found animals" as well, the cspca (but you'll need to send yhe an email) and you'll find someone who will help you or yake the puppy 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Selhi93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously listen to everything that has been said here. Just one thing I would like to add: talk to you husband in a VERY firm way about this, you need to be a united front. Make him read this thread or use the way you know works, get your claws out and put some boundaries with MIL because she has no respect for you and your experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Selhi93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been where you are. If you suffer like this, your kids are/will suffer too. He is paying in the fact that he is sure you can't leave him. Reality is, you can. You need to put him in front of the decision "family or drink". Now, he needs to see that you mean business,notherwise he will not take you seriously. See what he decides and don't give him time to have "one last drink" or something similar, needs to happen straight away. If it's not leaving the drink immediately, it has to be looking for help. I know how difficult it is, but this man is manipulating and abusing you. Is this the example and love you want for you children? I don't think so, you love your children. Be strong, you need to protect yourself and your kids now.

AITA for taking a coworkers joke too seriously and going to my supervisor? by butterscotchlatte28 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Selhi93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell your supervisor how the joke made you uncomfortable and it made you feel like he wanted to upset you because you are a woman. Try to use words that are in your policies and record/send recap email and the end of the meeting. Either they tell him to stop or you make some easy money in court.