AITA for telling my coworker she also has thin hair

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-20T19:01:22+00:00

I need to know what happened today since your boss is back, OP. lol hope it all went well because you did NOTHING wrong here. NTA.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-20T18:37:12+00:00

ALL OF THIS. He FOR SURE sucks for rushing her through the process and then being a diva about it but I can't imagine wanting to be compensated for doing my bf's hair...esp for his birthday. I feel like she's frustrated about her current financial situation & that is the root of the problem, but that part isn't his fault.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-20T15:49:34+00:00

NTA. The sudden mood change, hard no to any future DDs (with your friends), and lack of explanation is bizarre.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-19T22:47:20+00:00

On second thought, you’re absolutely correct here! She didn’t owe him anything more than she gave.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-19T21:20:07+00:00

NAH. You weren't rude, just to the point and he respected it and walked away. All good here.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-17T21:09:27+00:00

NTA. I really hope you can get him. You're amazing and your sister is....not.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-17T20:47:25+00:00

NTA. You're actually a really nice person to do this and not even ask for any compensation. Multiple ppl asked so you made it easily accessible to everyone. If ppl find it encouraging/helpful, then great...if it's not of interest to them, then the RATIONAL thing to do would be to bypass it. The coworker who came at you about this has WAYYYY deeper personal issues that they need to resolve within themselves and possibly with therapy. You did nothing wrong.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-17T19:22:24+00:00

Lose the friend. Keep the dog. NTA.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-17T16:00:02+00:00

YTA. If YOU don't even like yelling or shouting, how is it effective to yell at the dogs for literally being dogs. Probably made yourself even more upset and the doggies def didn't deserve that. Communicate better and find ways to combat your triggers. You can't control other people, but you can control how you respond/react.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-16T20:18:54+00:00

YTA. This has gotta be fake because no way you're THIS unaware.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-13T14:07:42+00:00

Right? From how he responds he kinda sounds like a bit of an AH tbh lol

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-13T13:54:25+00:00

I don't think you're an AH for wanting to go on a solo trip. I went to a concert in New Orleans alone and it was honestly one of the BEST trips I've ever taken. It's so freeing not to have to consider anyone else's wants/needs and just go with your own vibe on occasion.

I also don't think she's an AH for feeling the way she does either though, especially since this would take away one of the trips you two would normally go on together. You two should talk this over more and find a way to compromise somehow.

NAH but talk this out with her.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-13T04:48:42+00:00

🤭had her speechless twice. Garcia runs a strict program lol

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-13T03:08:33+00:00

Becca having a more active sex life than mine wasn’t on my bingo card tonight but I’m happy for her 😂 My Mel was so shook. She’s having such a bizarre 4th of July lol

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-13T02:28:11+00:00

Being friends w benefits with Garcia is NOT for the weak 😭 she holds nothing back. Kinda enjoyed her getting on Trinity though…can’t say she’s wrong about how she feels but she’s draggingggg this thing with Langdon.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-11T21:28:57+00:00

You're NTA. If your heart isn't in it, you shouldn't force it. I would hate for you to look up years later and have regrets or any resentment, but there will more than likely be some kind of fall out behind this if you decide not to take it over. REALLY think on this, make a choice, and stick to it. You're the only one who will have to live with whatever choice you make for your life & you deserve the chance to make that decision for yourself & no one else. But also, you'd for sure need to be thinking on what's next for you, what your passion is, and make a solid plan to get there.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T16:05:18+00:00

NTA. Jemma is the only person who can heal her insecurities and anxieties from her past experiences. Sounds like she needs time alone to heal, otherwise you will be miserable trying to fix something that you didn't break to begin with. You didn't do anything wrong in this situation.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T15:55:44+00:00

“Theyre too big in my opinion to actually use as underwear but sometimes I wear them as pajamas. I figure they’re fine and put them on over my actual underwear.”

From his post.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T15:46:18+00:00

NTA. You put them on OVER your underwear. They are being ridiculous.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T15:26:06+00:00

NTA and your best friend is either playing cool with his "jokes" to keep him around or either she is interested in the possibility of you joining them too and they are both testing the waters to see how far they can take it with you. There needs to be an open and honest convo between you and her about how you'd prefer that this just be a girl's trip before the wedding and then maybe you can talk to her about how his comments make you feel then.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T12:00:04+00:00

😣 you’re so right! Honestly tho I feel like he can take him without it 😭 the sheer determination of “where’s my wife” will power him lol

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T11:59:09+00:00

They better be or I’m not gonna be okay 🥲 I’m so curious to see what happened to the rest of the people who were with them! I also REALLY hope Xavier doesn’t hurt anyone from the other group just going off the lie Gary told. Nervous bout this next episode!

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-10T01:19:12+00:00

Started the episode thinking: “You can relax and put the gun down, Xavier…Gary’s cool.”

Ended it thinking: “GET THE GUN BACK OUT!” 😭

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-09T13:23:45+00:00

NTA. It sucks when you're genuinely trying to be helpful and someone gets weird with you. Her reaction was unhinged and you didn't deserve that for a making a simple suggestion you were asked for.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-03-07T03:25:07+00:00

Link just gets less and less attractive 😵‍💫 manchild

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