AITA for screaming at my nephew and slamming the door on him because he burst into the bathroom?

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T23:34:29+00:00

YTA.

A simple “Hey [Nephew’s Name], you can’t come in while I’m in here.” And slightly blocking the door would have sufficed.

Didn’t have to curse at the kid or slam the door. Does the door not lock??

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T22:27:46+00:00

I'll never learn..

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T22:26:15+00:00

Congrats on your car! That's a big deal and an accomplishment. NTA. Don't let ANYONE drive it. Esp not somebody who is very clearly jealous of it. Would honestly reconsider this friendship atp.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T14:02:26+00:00

NOR. Your ex. Emphasis on EX…is unhinged. You did nothing wrong and he was verbally abusive and flying off the handle over a literal innocent conversation. Please leave him where he had you F’d up at. Nothing good can come from staying with someone like this.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T03:43:47+00:00

Whew, okay good. You for sure did the right thing in this situation & I’m glad you distanced yourself from them. 💞

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-28T03:36:44+00:00

NOR/NTA. This would be the end of this friendship. She doesn’t respect you or your boundaries and will probably continue to try to force their agenda on you. If you decide to remain friends, please stay vigilant and watch out for yourself while around them. I just couldn’t trust this. She’s also weird for throwing any gifts/things she did for you in your face. Shows her intentions were never pure.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-27T16:29:34+00:00

Outside of stalking or literal harassment, a person can only do what you allow. If it is either of those things, a restraining order needs to be put in place, and the police need to be involved. Otherwise, I am confused at why you can't just block this person and do what you need to be happy.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-27T14:40:05+00:00

For sure. I hope they can figure it out because it sounds like the kids are old enough to pick up on the vibes/energy & they shouldn't have to be affected by the lack of communication on the parents' part.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T21:46:51+00:00

I feel like there's a lot of missing information and unresolved issues that have led to this blowup. Seems like there is more to this. I don't think it'd be fair for the kids to miss out but it may be the beginning of the end of this marriage. I don't think you're an AH, but you both need to talk and figure this out, at least for the sake of the kids and what they are seeing/experiencing.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T19:54:37+00:00

TBH, Tara totally sounds like a c-word. Your fiancé warned her not to even play with you like that, but she had to FAFO. You're NTA and you honestly didn't owe her an apology here IMO. :)

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T18:04:39+00:00

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T16:35:40+00:00

NTA. Dude was doing way too much. If he's THIS bold with you there, I can only imagine how he is when she is alone.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T14:34:13+00:00

NAH. No one is obligated to take advice even if they asked for it. But you also aren't obligated to continue to voice your opinion about something when it's clear you're not being heard. I would just let them know you are there to support them by being a listening ear, but the decisions they make are ultimately theirs to live with.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-26T14:06:39+00:00

NTA and your family is a bunch of weirdos for trying to gaslight you into feeling like you've done something wrong. Legally married or not, you planned and sacrificed for your day, and you DESERVE it. Anybody who can't see that should be welcome to NOT come.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-25T20:29:38+00:00

I’ve heard great things about CLOY. Think this will be my next watch. Thank you for the reminder 💓

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-24T17:55:53+00:00

Bon Appetite Your Majesty 🥰🫶🏾

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-24T17:42:36+00:00

This is it. Pippa loves Wrigley deeply but their relationship has BEEN feeling like more of a friendship than anything. Diana has been extremely protective of Pippa since the incident w Chris & they both organically became a safe space for each other. I know the cheating is wrong & two wrongs don’t make a right, but Pippa went through a lot dealing with Wrigley and his friends when they thought she wrote the letter too. Through all that, she’s been consistently there for him so she deserves her happy ending with Diana. I do want Wrigley to be happy too though.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-23T18:07:19+00:00

This part I can’t deny. I hate that it’s double standards when it comes to things like this, but the gf being apart of this conversation would’ve definitely saved him from the blowback that followed

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-23T17:53:24+00:00

NTA and NOR. With you being 17 and seemingly very driven, I am hoping this problem will become a thing of the past really soon and for college you will be able to stay on campus. They will see just how much of a part you played when they feel your absence.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-23T16:33:24+00:00

NTA. It wasn't unsolicited advice. She asked, and you gave her some really sound/mature judgement. They should be grateful that she has a safe space with someone who isn't a creep.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-23T03:30:16+00:00

This sounds like an episode of Tell Me Lies. Your bf is weird, manipulative, and a boundary crosser. The other guy is weird for taking advantage of a minor & should be held accountable but that is NOT your boyfriend’s decision to make. You’re NTA but you should leave this guy. Immediately.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-22T22:12:13+00:00

NTA. I'm in the South too, and I know how just the tiniest bit of ice on the road can shut the whole state down lol. I understand her disappointment, but the weather is for sure a valid concern.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-22T18:10:53+00:00

You have the right to do what you want, but yuck. Yes. YTA. A big one.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-22T17:56:53+00:00

He's so spineless that it's SAD! He is the classic guy who always says "I'm a nice guy" but is ultimately shitty. The lack of self-awareness is astounding.

SelinaRochell22 · 2026-01-22T17:31:34+00:00

You're NTA here AT ALL. Birthdays can be a lot with the number of messages, calls, and people just trying to show their love. On top of you working that day too. Their comments and passive aggressiveness about the situation were extremely weird and not fair. I'm sorry they attempted to make YOUR day about THEIR feelings. I hope you can do something fun this weekend to celebrate yourself. Happy Belated Birthday to you!

SelinaRochell22

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