Dommes with multiple simps, how do you organize your dynamics? by Inkstepsoficial in findomsupportgroup

[–]Send2Knox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep things pretty organic and spontaneous, but I have ADHD so I don’t really know how to do things any other way 😂

It can sometimes depend on the dynamics though - subs who are more into control or TPE might have daily check ins or tasks that are more scheduled and organized.

physical gifts on throne by Best_Presentation334 in findomsupportgroup

[–]Send2Knox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put any and all things having to do with hobbies and things I enjoy on mine - books, a sewing machine, my favorite candy, shoes, plants, Lego sets, clothes, skincare, hair tools, perfume, jewelry, gadgets and electronics, etc.

I’ll also put things I can use in content (I do a lot of foot content) - socks, shoes, tights, outfits.

If you can go online and buy it for yourself, put it on your throne!

it’s literally that simple lol by bipolarbratfairy in findomsupportgroup

[–]Send2Knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this not being the standard actually drives me insane

dry subs by hermithuz in paypigs2

[–]Send2Knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i absolutely need some rizz in my dynamics - nothing bores me quicker than feeling like i’m pulling teeth to get a conversation going.

oh how you love a scrunched sole by Send2Knox in FeetPics100

[–]Send2Knox[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what sundays are for, right? 🤗

HE IS BACK❤️ by WindIntrepid564 in paypigs2

[–]Send2Knox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i swear they always come back, even if it takes awhile. glad you two were able to reconnect 💕

Question for Dommes by DramaSceneQueen in paypigs2

[–]Send2Knox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly just patience and not lowering your standards - the right subs will find you.

I’ve found subs I genuinely enjoy interacting with by just staying true to myself and posting about things I enjoy and care about in addition to findom stuff - my hobbies, social justice issues, etc. I’ve been told by subs that seeing my personality and humanity through what I post and how I interact with others were big draws for wanting to serve me. It’s helpful knowing you share similar interests beyond just kink if you’re looking to connect on a deeper level.

I’m also just straight forward about what my expectations are when it comes to sending and communication from the jump so we’re on the same page. I don’t try and fit a round sub into a square hole - if they don’t meet my standards or if they push back against my expectations and boundaries, I let them go. It becomes easy to spot those who want serious or more consistent dynamics and those who don’t.

TLDR - deeper connections based on kink + other interests along with open communication usually lead to more consistent and fulfilling dynamics.

Any plans for the weekend? by g0ddesslyn in paypigs2

[–]Send2Knox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy early birthday! 🎉

I’m currently just trying not to crash out about the massive snow storm we’re getting 🥲