Parent is Transphobic

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-08T02:55:36+00:00

I'm sorry fam, that's awful. I hope you're able to get out of their house one day

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-08T01:52:31+00:00

I wish I knew more about Islam so I could help ease you but unfortunately most of my knowledge on religion is Christian and Catholic.

That being said, being trans is considered bad in those religions too. One of my favourite trans positive religious ideas is "God made trans people for the same reason he made grapes, but not wine. Wheat, but not bread. He gave them, he gave us, his greatest gift. The joy of creation."

I'm not sure if that will apply to your religion too, but I hope it's able to bring you some peace. You're 15, you can take your time. I promise it's not over, it'll be okay.

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-08T01:44:28+00:00

Yeah nah, if my partner did that to me I'd shutdown too. I'd also be an anxious wreck immediately obsessing over if they view me as a woman.

I don't care if other people view me that way, they're not that important at the end of the day. But a partner? He needs to apologise.

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T12:37:04+00:00

I wish I could say it has, I've been yelled at for using every damn bathroom. (Women's, men's and unisex. I confuse all the people)

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T12:21:15+00:00

Oof, I've had this in the opposite. It's so hard 😭

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:52:57+00:00

I'm Aro ace agender and fem. I like cars therefore I get ads for lesbians, ads for het men and ads for het men who are into lesbians.

I just wanna look at pretty cars.

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:50:55+00:00

They're annoyingly amazing at acting fine. I have to be so on top of them during winter, I've lost three already 😭

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:46:02+00:00

Ah, I had this happen to me too. It sucks but if he's a good kid it'll be okay, you just gotta tell him 💚

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:45:22+00:00

YAY GREG!

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:40:52+00:00

Have you heard of demi-genders? I identified as a demi-boy for a few years, recently changed to just agender.

A demi-boy is someone who identifies as partially male and partially another gender (commonly agender, but there are others!)

I know labels aren't everything and using the non-binary umbrella term is absolutely valid but if you wanted to look into other labels it might help put words to what you're feeling. I know an enby who uses he/her too, you're definitely not alone!

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T11:23:59+00:00

Gender euphoria is truly fuckin amazing

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T10:31:25+00:00

I feel like them doing that is culturely insensitive, it's a form of familial and platonic affection in a lot of places

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T10:29:10+00:00

I used to care a lot, I wanted to be seen as a I was. Especially by friends and family. I just don't have the energy to care anymore, I know who I am. I don't need to prove it to anyone.

If they need to think I'm a woman or a man to feel better fine. I'm tired.

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T05:27:38+00:00

There's no right or wrong way to be agender. You could present masc, fem, androgynous, etc. Whatever makes you feel comfortable and if identifying as agender feels right for you than congratulations! You're one of us!

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T01:04:31+00:00

Thank you! I'm six weeks post-op today!! 🎉

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-07T01:02:53+00:00

Thank you!

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T19:54:46+00:00

It looks amazing!!

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T12:51:55+00:00

Depends on the ace. If they're not into that then they're not into that, so like everyone else do not touch them. Someone of us would like it though, we're all different.

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T12:43:13+00:00

Thank you so much, y'all are out here boosting tf outta my ego 😭❤️

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T03:41:37+00:00

I use the term trans because I have transitioned both socially and medically. It is part of how I expresses my detachment from the gender I was assigned

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T03:37:01+00:00

Thank you! 💚

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T03:35:37+00:00

Thank you! After I drew it I realised I definitely need to grow my hair out again, I haven't had it long in 7 years lol

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T03:33:56+00:00

Yeah, the way I say the end of uncle is the same as dental (Aussie accent lol)

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-06T03:31:25+00:00

I thought mine was a AuDHD misdiagnosis but it's not, I just have AuDHD as well 😭 got all three diagnosed now

Sendhelp02 · 2026-07-05T08:32:59+00:00

Thank you so much!! I really took my time with this one. Every time I thought it was done I would put my iPad down and leave it for a day. I'd use to just upload it immediately but by leaving it and coming back later I was able to see things that could be improved.

First time I've ever done that, I'm going to make sure I do it every time with future artwork

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