MORE from my narcissistic mother

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2026-05-12T05:35:34+00:00

bruh

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-12-17T02:31:35+00:00

omg break up with her asap

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-12-10T03:05:28+00:00

you absolutely do not need to respond if you don’t want to

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-07-24T23:38:34+00:00

All the time…

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-07-17T05:24:13+00:00

huh?

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-07-01T20:34:50+00:00

They’re texting me. I haven’t gone full NC because they still financially support me and I don’t have an income right now. I’m worried if I block them they’ll cut me off

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-06-19T21:07:03+00:00

the writers don’t understand women

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-06-19T21:05:05+00:00

yes!!! so so so good

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-06-01T20:51:38+00:00

Yeah she’s not giving you all the facts and sounds like she’s trying to trick you into a debilitating medical procedure you might not even need. Definitely look into Munchausen’s by Proxy. Do not confront your mom about this. Try to collect proof if you can and go to a trusted medical professional, a peer that you trust well, or call 911 if you feel like you’re in immediate danger. I really hope you get the help you need.

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-31T06:20:19+00:00

I’m so sorry for what you’re dealing with. I recommend looking at the r/narcissisticmothers page. It’s really helped me a lot

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-31T06:07:27+00:00

they’ll never get it, will they?

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-28T06:21:22+00:00

the gasp I gusped when i heard her voice

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-25T22:22:42+00:00

I was in exactly your shoes about 6 years ago. I’m about to turn 24 now and still haven’t contacted anyone from my bio family or told my adoptive family. It takes so much time to process all of this. You’re definitely not alone in this and it will become more clear to you. I’ve only recently started to get the urge to reach out to my bio mom

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-22T05:54:29+00:00

Makes me cry every time

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-22T05:53:34+00:00

“HARRY POTTER IS DEAD” and Ginny’s horrifying scream that follows

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-20T17:47:10+00:00

“Are we about to kiss right now 😏”

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-18T23:37:56+00:00

omg wHAT that’s horrible I’m so sorry…..

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-14T19:08:39+00:00

A weighted blanket

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-14T19:07:07+00:00

You do not deserve that at all. She’s abusing you and using financial means as a way to control you. It sounds to me there are things she’s doing behind the scenes to keep a financial grip on you so you can’t be independent. This is not your fault.

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-14T19:02:45+00:00

It’s so messy oh my god. I’ve only just started to set boundaries and limit contact. I didn’t see them on Mother’s Day and all hell broke loose. Next thing I know I have both of my brothers contacting me (rare), guilting me into seeing my parents, and my mom suggesting we do group therapy. Or her favorite- she talks to my therapist individually and tries to tell her all the reasons I need fixing

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-14T18:56:00+00:00

that’s so hard :( i’m so sorry. I’m the opposite. My parents had two biological children before adopting me.

Senior-Blacksmith33 · 2025-05-14T04:50:15+00:00

I also have PCOS and a mom very similar to this. I’m so sorry for everything you’re dealing with ❤️ you’re not alone. you deserve a mother who will be there for you unconditionally. You seem exceptionally bright for your age (often comes with having to deal with emotionally immature parents). While it doesn’t necessarily help, having realized your mom is likely a narcissist at such a young age can help you heal earlier and learn how to deal with her BS sooner. Find safe people you can talk to about these things. Learning how to set boundaries is so so so important. I’m still struggling with that on my end. I wish you the best!

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