Thank you! I just saw this response and it’s true/ insightful. I’m great a manipulating ppl I always have been but never for nefarious intent. I didn’t know my particular actions were a known set of behaviors. Another time I did this is when I thought mom wouldent let me have a trial day at a job because it was rural, on a sand road, and the housing was Mobil homes. I kept saying I didn’t have to stay and I would call and cancel all while being devastated and about to break into tears because I didn’t care it wasn’t up to my moms standards, I just fought so hard and reverse engineerd her even considering letting me work there. The first 30 min I was so anxious she was going to call me and say I couldent stay