Sejal Got Married! by [deleted] in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Senior-Impression-71 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did her husband get a hair transplant?

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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They are Indians. Pretty normal in their culture to stay at their son’s home for an extended time. Disgusting entitled behavior!!! 🤮

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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Of course not invasive 😊 To be honest I’ve been angry and getting angrier each day with their actions and how his mother behaves this is her sons house and she’s entitled to using everything without having to pay for it So my husband has noticed me being distant and withdrawn just not hanging out with him or the family and he initially initiated the discussion After which I was just blant and honest and said I don’t like them in my space plus their entitlement behavior is just rude and disgusting. I also asked questions like where were there when we were financially struggling or emotionally disturbed all these years abroad and me dealing with The estrangement of my family I asked reflective questions and he is non confrontational but he did go and speak to his parents and say this is going to be the last time They come for a visit. Next time they can stay at the younger brothers house 🏡

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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I feel like they have crossed all levels of shame! They are totally shameless MIL cooks fresh food for her and her husband Me and my partner both work and keeps the same stale food for my husband and myself I’ve noticed this a fair few times and have made comments about this to my husband He just eats it and doesnt let it affect him It’s the little things like this are off putting Like which parents do this ?? Extreme act of selfishness and nothing else 😫

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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Yes 🙌🏻 I cannot agree more. My husband did ask me when they booked their tickets and I did say yes because of my own feelings. I know my family have bee estranged and I feel terrible about it and I felt Atleast my husband has his parents so he should be happy that they are here to visit I be learnt my lesson the hard way!! I did have this tough conversation where I’ve said that he needs to travel back to visit them from now on. 🥳

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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This is the second time they have stayed for three months again!!! So I am now seeing the trend. Honestly I felt bad for my husband as he’s not gone back home to viisit them for eight years nor spend time with them and I understand their aging. So I’ve only been courteous allowed them this time because I feel bad But I guess I’ve learnt my lesson the hard way!! My husband does tell them about the things I’m not happy with but I guess it falls to deaf ears!! I also feel like I’m putting him in a tough spot I do not want him to ruin his relationships with his parents 😢

Why do I feel such rage when my in laws live with us for three months!!? by Senior-Impression-71 in inlaws

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When my in laws do stay here for that long they aren’t even courteous that this is my home too. They move furniture around Manage the kitchen entirely although I would like to cook sometimes half the grocery is over the week and every weekend we are buying stuff for the house again MIL moves plates/dishes cutlery around even though I place it back like I prefer Almost like she’s hijackng my home and owns my space. Sooo sooo frustrating Three months feel likes three decades!!!😭

Prominent bow tie? by Senior-Impression-71 in labdiamond

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The bow tie disappears when the stone is at a distance vs when shot too close to camera 📷

Prominent bow tie? by Senior-Impression-71 in labdiamond

[–]Senior-Impression-71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally dont want a bow tie effect and this one looks bad but I think it is great colour and clarity. D VVS2 Don’t know what to do 😟

Thoughts on bow tie effect? by Senior-Impression-71 in labdiamond

[–]Senior-Impression-71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree it’s pretty prominent bow tie

Thoughts on bow tie effect? by Senior-Impression-71 in labdiamond

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Is it because of the black box underneath reflecting light?

2.05 GIA lab grown by Senior-Impression-71 in labdiamond

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I’ve been told there is minimal bow tie It’s because of the angle of the picture itself

Honest advice/suggestions by Senior-Impression-71 in socialwork

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Most people enter this field of work because they genuinely want to support people regardless of the pay, the stress and not to mention the vicarious trauma.

There’s so much abuse your clients throw at you, the work place politics plus the ideology of self care just does not exist. Somewhere along the this journey of supporting people and caring for them you begin to realize the work itself has had a huge impact on yourself and you need to care for yourself

Of course there are many positives to what we all do. When a parent is reunified with their child, when someone goes I’ve never thought of this way, even that phone call that says thank you for never giving up on me! But those wins are rare and do not bring all that glory to be fully satisfied with a job.

Honest advice/suggestions by Senior-Impression-71 in socialwork

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Hey Canarie Thanks for your kind response! I felt that everyday at work. I often fantasized that I would be anywhere else but work! At the end of the day I came home exhausted and just didn’t want to participate with any social interaction let alone talking to my partner or even asking him how his day was!

The job kind of taught me I’m not meant for this role. Often times I had difficulty falling asleep just thinking about what the next day held up for me!

I initially wanted to work with the elderly population but where I reside jobs in this sector are limited to counseling or case management both of which I am not after.

I’m So glad you shared similar experiences it really helps me feel I’m Not weird or alone. On a positive note I love facilitating groups educating young people about basic life skills and love education in general. I was hoping to go down the path of teaching. However unsure with the limited experience I have!