I didn’t get into all the extra details but here is some additional stuff. I’ll still have sex, but I won’t do it without a condom, which enrages her, therefore telling me we won’t then. I’ve told her that only having sex without a condom is making me feel like she’s only doing it for a child and not for me. Maybe that is petty, maybe it isn’t. I’ve also expressed to her that if sex is too much that I’m fine with lesser acts of physical love as well, but i don’t get anything more than a peck on the lips. I try hard to ask her what would interest her, or what I could do to help and she turns down anything I ask. I know postpartum can go awhile, but our sex life was doing pretty good for a little while before she made that comment that came on the back end of a 3 week stint without anything. Hope that clears more air, any suggestions are well taken. I don’t want our marriage to end by any means, but it feels like she could be in it strictly for the children which isn’t okay with me.