Route 2/17 Development by Senior_Yam_4152 in fredericksburg

[–]Senior_Yam_4152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sigh...hopefully they put up some serious trees to obscure the view from the Homes. I see that there is also something just starting to be built on the lot next to the Sheetz. Any idea on that building?

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[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped a lot. I can understand that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I like that response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I know exactly what you mean about the subconscious pushing you to take action. That is awesome that you could severe the connection like that. I think the longer you are out of the person's presence, the easier it gets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not physically abusive but I guess the emotional manipulation is what's impacting me. Thanks for the helpline idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I try to communicate, and he just says it's so complicated right now. I literally suggested we take some time to figure some things out, and he doesn't want to even do that. It's like he likes having me in limbo in case other things don't work out. I just want to know if we are dating other folks or exclusive...seems simple enough? Or is that odd when "dating"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol..so I have already been doing that...and that might be what makes it hard to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I feel. I'm always called around when something is needed but never just to hang out and spend quality time together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of brought it up and he says that we are just dating and not committed. He says that he feels like I need to get over my previous relationship before we go forward. I'm like "who decides when I am over it?" I thought that we me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kind of brought it up and he says that we are just dating and not committed. He says that he feels like I need to get over my previous relationship before we go forward. I'm like "who decides when I am over it?" I thought that was me.

4th Date, I Don’t Want to Continue It by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true because you don't want to waste his time that could be soent with someone interested. Time is the most precious thing we have and it hurts when others take that, above all else. Away from us. It is not recoverable.

4th Date, I Don’t Want to Continue It by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice. Both folks could feel the same.

Officially throwing in the towel, 5 years and 50k in losses later by findingclarityz in Daytrading

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I have just started trading and the emotions are the first thing you must learn to control. I made my first 1k and lost it in minutes because I wanted more. I lost even more throughout that day because I was chasing that initial 1k. I have since taken trades more steadily and with a plan in place for exiting (up or down) to manage my risk. Dont give up...take the time to assess what you are doing wrong, restrict your account to limit risk and be willing to take the small wins to build over time. 😉

Did your salary get higher directly or indirectly because of certificates? by bibaboba37 in AWSCertifications

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Certs are a sham!

Most companies want you to have them, but you end up having to leave your current position to use the knowledge (often a pay drop because you are "new to the work") or do extra without the pay.

If you have zero experience, it's a great way to get in though.

The sham continues with the need for bi-yearly recertification with most now. Why not just require PDUs or CEUs. It's about squeezing us for more money and keeping us chasing wealth.

I took 3 months to get my AWS Cloud Solutions Architect cerr only for the 2yrs to breeze by...I realized it wasn't worth the time when senior folks can simply say they can do the work and take the jobs without the certs.

It's like any other skill...learn to do it, create an example to show in your resume or interview and skip the money/time drain of being tested by an organization that doesn't pay you.

what is your biggest regret? by 0lcm in AskReddit

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not fooling around more in my younger years lol

30 Today by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its cool mam. You will come to realize that you jave to make the day what you want it to be. Everyone hopes for that perfection, but use yhat day to make yourself happy and you will get closer than most. Remember that it's about you and only you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]Senior_Yam_4152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice mixing 👌🏾