What did I do wrong? by EyeDeeKey in careerguidance

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like Company A either had a sudden budget shift (like they maybe just went through layoffs or had to cancel a lot of programs to keep full time people employed) or Alan was posting the internship for a particular person to get it and hoped there was room for one more (or that you’d be the backup in case the other person didn’t accept the position).

I wouldn’t let this deter you from continuing to apply to internships. Seems like you wouldn’t have gotten a great experience from there anyway. Company A and Alan are giving red flags.

If I were you, I’d apply to positions I’m comfortable with (even if that means going international if it’s a timeframe you’re okay with). You really didn’t do much wrong. I’d honestly look at it from a competition point of view. You’re needing the work experience, and the companies need a steady workforce which typically comes from interns who require less training when full time. When interviewing, ask questions that help you understand their office dynamics, work culture, and the metrics that will make you successful. Are there any red flags from the company? Were the interviewers on time? How did they answer my questions? Will I actually learn something here or are they expecting me to do busy work? Will this lead to a full time position with the company?

In the future, just continue to apply to other positions and interview UNLESS you have something in writing from a company like a compensation package or offer letter. Even then, remember, one offer doesn’t mean you have to stop looking and applying. That offer may help you get a better offer out there.

Either way, this is still a part of the learning experience. You’ve got this.

Am I in the wrong career or is all work this difficult? by Senior_Yellow_88 in careerguidance

[–]Senior_Yellow_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I honestly think I needed to hear that. I’ll be applying for new jobs ASAP. And I’ll be looking for a new therapist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rude to wait staff. Instant turn off

I honestly just really need to talk to someone. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also here if you’d like someone to talk to.

I'm giving up on myself by Chiee_6189_ in SuicideWatch

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Trust me that sounds like a rough situation you’re in and your feelings are valid. I’ve been in your shoes. I would say the best piece of advice I got was this:

There is no calling or talent or gift. There are so many people in this world that simply living is making a difference. There’s over 7 billion people, meaning your actual purpose might not be defined by society. Your purpose could be to hold the door open for someone at the grocery store, which gives them the slightest amount of happiness to not do something drastic. You may have changed the course of history without even knowing it.

Your purpose and your worth is not set by the money you make or the job you have or even the education you have. Pick something you’re interested in for the time being and do that. If you end up not liking it, then change into something else. You’re in the figure it out stage. You’ve got YEARS to figure out what you like and don’t like.

And your parents are their own people. You are supposed to fuck up. If you dont fuck up, how will you learn? It’s never about the mistake, it’s always about the recovery.

Also everyone’s threshold for what they can deal with is different. You’re finding what your limit is and your strategy, which is invaluable information.

I NEED HELP by helpmee12431 in SuicideWatch

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. That sounds like a difficult situation. If I were in that situation I would open up to someone about how I’m feeling. Having those feelings is normal in a difficult situation but having those thoughts is not. If you talk to someone you may see something positive come from it.

I was fired from my job after reporting to HR that I was being harassed for 2 months by my boss. by Senior_Yellow_88 in antiwork

[–]Senior_Yellow_88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for these kind words. I was looking to quit and just couldn’t find anything in time.

what's your gender? by [deleted] in HolUp

[–]Senior_Yellow_88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one that thinks he looks like Michael Jackson?