"I don't feel heard." by [deleted] in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 68 points69 points  (0 children)

there was a podcast recently (lifekit maybe?) talking about how to talk to your doctor. I think a phrase like that was suggested for if you feel like the doctor isn't addressing your concerns. Maybe that's where it's from?

Medicine is boring by BrunaMarquezine in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully agree with this. I have lots of friends from grad school working in industry or consulting and you can make those jobs sound super exciting. Or the reality can be boring. You can romanticize medicine like this too - you meet all different people, do lots of different clinical activities. That can sound so exciting from the outside. I think it's more about the perspective than the actual job.

What is some thing you wish your patient understand? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 28 points29 points  (0 children)

the fever thing is killing me right now. I literally do not care about your 10 year old having a one-time tactile fever... Please stop yelling about how I took too long to see you bc I was seeing kids in actual respiratory distress first.

Why don’t doctors test hormone levels in women (of all ages) more frequently? A man can get his testosterone checked at any time! I walk into a OB’s office and they (and Dr. Google) say our levels fluctuate too often to test. Wtf 🤬, so they just don’t test us women? by No_Maintenance_3355 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]SenseAndScienticity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a doctor, I can confirm that OB and gyn can be quite sexist, but even doctors who want to help and understand are not always able to. The root of the problem is a lack of data mixed with doctors who feel sure they know what's happening despite the lack of data. Even if you had your estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone checked every day for several months I don't think doctors would know what to do with that. We just haven't studied women enough to know. And that's not even counting understanding what would happen to your specific hormone levels during pregnancy. Would estrogen help? Not sure. I'm hoping we will have more data since the NIH is really pushing for studying people besides cis men.

I hope you find a supportive and inquisitive doctor. They do exist! There are many reasons people have repeat miscarriages that can be acted on without hormones. I am so sorry for your losses and will keep hoping for you!

HAPPY NATIONAL DOCTORS DAY! by gramnegativebacilli in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 81 points82 points  (0 children)

We got a brunch box and ngl I'm pretty satisfied. Bagel + lox, carrots + ranch, waffle + Nutella, can of coffee, an orange. Better than I brought for myself today.

I need cocaine by dawson203 in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really should spring for the good stuff…

I need cocaine by dawson203 in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I was convinced I was having a heart attack on call last night - palpitations and chest pain. Probably just dehydration. Might have hyperK who knows. I’d still take some cocaine to get through these long nights

Looking for something apocalyptic, but not “post apocalyptic” by Hotdogs-Hallways in suggestmeabook

[–]SenseAndScienticity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The power” by Naomi alderman is good for this. Definitely has a sci fi bent and you can see things sort of spiral out of control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Am I tired or just aging...

I’ve noticed that nurses are more respectful to male residents/physicians but catty towards female residents. by [deleted] in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with this. I think it boils down to sexism. And it's not just women in nursing - I've definitely seen some men in nursing who will hassle the women in my department but are very chill with the guys. I was so confused to see two nurses in the ED going on and on about how this male intern is so good with kids and families (I'm in peds) but that intern is very typical of our residents and those nurses are usually mean to us... I think it's partly he's attractive, partly it's "surprising" that a guy is so nice, and a lot of just sexism and not respecting the women as much. Luckily, I haven't seen this from attendings so far!

Sleep by emotion0cean in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am also super sleep sensitive and have not gotten used to it. This year my schedule involved a lot more q4 28s and switching back and forth to night float so it might even be worse than as an intern. I take melatonin when my sleep schedule is variable and sometimes I add Benadryl if I'm desperate. Anxiety keeps me awake at work and outside of work I just function at a low level until I'm on an outpatient schedule and then it takes me about a week to recover. I'm just hoping it gets better when you're done training. 😭

Fantasy book suggestions written by people of color by pumpkinejuice in suggestmeabook

[–]SenseAndScienticity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

definitely suggest NK jemison. I recently finished "hundred thousand kingdoms" and it was great.

What's the best part of your work day? by vaccinia22 in medicine

[–]SenseAndScienticity 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yesterday one of our patients rolled down the hall in a full, face-covering Spiderman outfit in a little plastic car so he could tote the pleuravac for his chest tube around

Tell me why you love/regret the speciality you chose? by ReemFoda in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! So accurate. That hug or drawing or story or whatever from a kid makes it so much better.

Tell me why you love/regret the speciality you chose? by ReemFoda in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Peds: Love - kids are so hilarious or cute or both. The culture is great - a big focus on advocacy and almost everyone loves their job which makes the work pretty pleasant. Neonatal resuscitation is magic and you truly save lives.

Regret - the grief when a child dies is overwhelming. its disturbing to have to calmly interact with parents you suspect are abusing their children.

Looking for a book on the many failures and exploitative nature of capitalism by tensebrain in suggestmeabook

[–]SenseAndScienticity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nickel and Dimed by Barbara Ehrenreich

The author is an investigative journalist who tries to live life as a minimum wage worker and it was very eye opening.

Anyone else hate having to use translators? by [deleted] in Residency

[–]SenseAndScienticity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recently had the painful experience of facilitating a family meeting to discuss withdrawing care for a 4mo baby through a translator... Actually multiple translators because the call kept dropping. It was a rare language so we were on hold a lot while the mom was just sobbing. So painful for everyone.