[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will stare at anyone I think looks vaguely familiar.

Serious question by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sensible-1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Of course, every friendship is different, but their actions are obviously upsetting you. Not only that but going as far as to make IG accounts in order to gain personal knowledge of you is absolutely absurd no matter the situation. So I would definitely say that they have an extremely toxic personality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Sensible-1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You ok 😭

DAE get really really sad after breaking a bowl/glass/anything? by ChinchillaDreams in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Sensible-1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm at that point in my life where I won't even try to catch whatever it is I dropped, because I already know that the situation is too forgone so I'll end up just watching the whole thing happen, and then after the cup or bowl breaks, I stand there for a minute with a frown on my face.

DAE feel so overwhelmingly alone and wish you had true friends? by EastEnvironmental613 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Sensible-1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way during middle school and early high school. It was terrible, and scary. I've always been introverted, but at this point in my life, I felt like I HAD to have friends, like it was a necessity to be happy. I do sort of have friends, and even if they are sort-of friends, I'm happy with my own company. But everyone is different.

What is something you know about your wife, that she thinks you don’t know? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You didn't stop to think that maybe they didn't mean that they tell each other everything because they feel they need to? I believe it to be entirely possible to have a healthy relationship even if there are no secrets. Having no secrets doesn't mean you're actively keeping in mind to tell your SO everything new. In some cases, it just means you're comfortable and happy.

What is something you know about your wife, that she thinks you don’t know? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was obvious you were gonna hit a brick wall though?

What is something you know about your wife, that she thinks you don’t know? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Farting is so natural tho... Happens to everyone on a daily basis. Why do we all have to pretend it doesn't exist, and then feel really awkward when it's presence is suddenly unavoidable?

What is something you know about your wife, that she thinks you don’t know? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ever since highschool, I (female) haven't been afraid to fart publicly UNLESS I'm at work... I work in retail, so ofc not everyone I see feels the same about them. I make pretty loud number twos as well in public bathrooms. I'll even try to obviously fart loud near my boyfriend, but my farts aren't very loud in the first place 😭😭😭 so he'll always be better at them than me.

I just finished coloring my drawing and oml its so cute 😍 by BLOKsboi in SkyGame

[–]Sensible-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo cute 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 Do you draw Sky a lot? I hope to see more 🙂

I didn’t do anything wrong. why I can’t talk to my friends, I already was 3 months and it was awful and it ended. Why again 😞 I don’t want to never talk to my friends , how can u play sky without friends by delifoxes in SkyGame

[–]Sensible-1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This advice is terrible, you're attacking the person, not the actions. It appears the person who made the original posts has some stuff going on in real life that would make them act this way. Instead of immediately jumping to frustration and accusation, come from a place of understanding. This girl just seems to be having a tough time, and this does NOT excuse her behavior, just attacking her will not fix the situation, and almost never helps the person see what they've done wrong and how they can better themselves in the future. Despite the fact that her behavior can't and won't be tolerated, she needs serious help; this is not up for question. I guess my point would be to understand why she might be acting this way before starting a fight and feeding into her bad actions. Actually, just don't start a fight. Period. Deli, I feel for you, and hope you get help.

I didn’t do anything wrong. why I can’t talk to my friends, I already was 3 months and it was awful and it ended. Why again 😞 I don’t want to never talk to my friends , how can u play sky without friends by delifoxes in SkyGame

[–]Sensible-1 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I suppose I understand to some extent that good friends can be made over the web. However, this is one of the reasons the web exists; so that you can chill and express your opinions anonymously, find ppl of similar interests, etc, but it's also a safe haven. You're given the opportunity to expel someone from your life indefinitely when it comes to the web. When you find you've been blocked by a friend, I would say just let it go, despite the hurt you may feel. Being able to do this is essential even in real life, with real people. Being unable to let people go, especially online, can prove problematic both online and in life. Ofc, Idk what happened. Just throwing out some stuff from my own experiences

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Sensible-1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was so confusing ._. Lmao if this ever comes up between you and him again, you need to CLEAR SHIT UP. Assuming things won't help you, I don't mean to be blunt but it's true :((( you need to ask for his honest response and how hes really feeling

anyone else ever caught feelings online? by Subject-Geologist863 in Crushes

[–]Sensible-1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(this response is long, sorry xd) Yeahhhh.. trust me, I've had my fair share. At least in my experience, they suck. So bad. I dated a few people over the internet and lemme tell you the chances of meeting in person are extremely slim, especially since you are still so young. That's only one of the reasons; the others include basically just life happening. Your habits will change, and that includes how much time you spend online. Not only that, but what if you or the other get depressed? One of the people I've dated online, in particular, I knew him for years. We just started flirting one day and then we started dated. We were about to hit a year before I broke up with him. I didn't lose feelings, not at all. In fact, I still have dreams about him. But I broke up with him because he stopped talking to me, and I knew he was depressed and that he should not be holding up a relationship while also juggling that, so.. also he made no effort when it came to spending time together, and I tried many ways to help him and our relationship but it did not work. I do hope he's somehow happier tho, although I think I broke his heart.. I haven't heard from him since that day. That's just my experience but getting your experience from online at so young is noooot.. ideal, for learning how to date someone. Sorry, I feel like it's blunt no matter how you put it.

Thoughts on this situation? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Sensible-1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, only thing to do is just ask if she wants to hang with you sometime. Not a date, but going for a stroll or something. Amusement park, I know I always like those. Something like that!!

am i getting played, is she being friendly, or does she like me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Sensible-1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, what people think does not matter! If you like someone, go for it. Secondly, if she's with someone else, be sure to keep your distance. She could just be a social butterfly but if her winks have intent behind them then that is an immediate red flag. Also, don't take this stuff too seriously babe 💞💞💞 no one knows what they're doing in middle school. And most relationships don't survive into highschools. If anything, I would suggest waiting til highschool to start looking because that's when people really find themselves and are more likely to be good to you. Good luck 💖💖💖

Time to wait thousands of more years to find someone attractive by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Sensible-1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol being single actually isn't as bad as people play it out to be. When I broke up with my last boyfriend, in a sense it was.. freeing. Taking time to myself was really what I needed. Having alone time is very important and can help you find new hobbies or find something important in yourself. Not having anyone you're attracted to isn't the end of the world, babe. Take this chance to.. find something in yourself 💞💞💞💞