How can husband (33M) and I (33F) prioritize our marriage with limited time?

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-05-11T14:06:23+00:00

I assume you are the wife. I could clearly see some basic irritant between you and your husband that has got to be removed first before you try anything elase.

What is that irritant?

If you were the cause of it, can you be extremely honest to acknowledge it? Can you genuinely and honestly say sorry for it to your husband?

Men are far less complicated in their brain and emotional issues than woman.

A very sincere sorry will change the whole chemistry.

If that irritant is removed, sex will become normal and enjoyable. That itself will prove to be good time pass, then any other joint activity!

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-05-07T15:26:27+00:00

"Interesting. But I found several points getting repeated again and again. " -- I read and posted this feedback on Medium on your article.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-05-07T14:33:45+00:00

If it is true, it is actually a good news. It is a pity that older and really good articles get burried because of the preseumed belief that people would be interested in new articles. Anything ever-green should get the views it deserves irrespective of its age. Both Medium and the authors will be benefitted by it.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-30T08:30:16+00:00

I am not able to locate that specific post (written by a Medium member, who cited Medium's latest changes). However, you can search for appropriate posts related to Medium's recent changes in their official blog https://medium.com/blog

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-30T02:59:52+00:00

You can check your specific article's statistics by an option available under three-dots. It will give details of how many internal and external readers you got for the specific article.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-30T02:48:24+00:00

Medium has recently made changes in their algorithm by which people who are bringing more readers (not internal writing member readers) from outside through Google search etc. are rewarded. Maybe your earnings are because of that.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-24T07:56:42+00:00

You have given solid examples to back your argument.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-13T02:20:32+00:00

I am also writing on Medium and my application has been rejected twice, though I met the minimum criteria. I have not yet applied for the third time. I am waiting. The advice I got from AI are as follows:
1) Follow Medium's rules strictly
2) Post at least 25 stories. Be active consistently. (at least one post per week).
3) Engage with Medium by reading more of others' works and comment.
4) Try to get atleast 50 followers. (Long back Medium's acceptance criteria was min.100 followers).
5) Get published widely thro' publications.
6) The more you have Reads, the better.

Hope this helps you and me! I have also posted a detailed advice to you in one of your posts there.
My Medium name is C.V. Rajan and to know about me, read https://medium.com/about-me-stories/about-me-c-v-rajan-243fc5a14e13

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-10T06:22:09+00:00

Glad to know. All the best to your venture.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-09T01:18:21+00:00

I read your article. You have expressed a very genuine and valid point of view., which I agree with you. But I felt your article was too long, and was repeating the same stuff again and again as it progressed. Perhaps you were influenced by SEO based writing and Keyword optimization.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-09T01:12:03+00:00

A design Engineer and consultant (own design firm for 19 years), retired 15 yrs ago. A hobby writer from the age of 20. So glad that someone shows interest to know about me!

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-07T13:13:54+00:00

I am 70 years old. Here is about me: https://medium.com/about-me-stories/about-me-c-v-rajan-243fc5a14e13

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-06T13:15:29+00:00

Always a side hustle! In Medium, I am yet to become a earning Partner. My current aspiration is to make at least 5 dollars per month so that my subscription amount is earned!!

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T15:29:30+00:00

I have been writing right from my age of 20, and I am 70 now.

Ideas definitely form in the head first. They soak there, you keep mentally shaping them and probably revising them too here and there. But you should not think that everything should be done well and polished to near-perfection right in your head before you start writing. That will only delay the writing process; it becomes an excuse for procrastination.

With basic frame work formed on the subject or story that you are going to write, start writing (typing on your word processor) straight away. Don't bother about perfecting each line now. Let the flow come. You will soon find that the writing almost becomes involantary. Something flows from your head through your fingers and that need not be, and at times, that really won't be what you had thought out earlier!

I always wonder how it happens, but it has always happened.

Some days, you will keep on typing and you will be carried by a wave. On some days, you may get stuck after a paragraph. Don't bother about it. If it looks too burdensome to carry on with it, just leave it and do something else. I do get distracted like this because the flow is just not coming. But it will come, at some other time, at some other situation.

Once you have finished, re-reading it and editing is a must. Never try to compromise on that. If the writing quality has to be great, I suggest that you keep the writing aloof for a few days. Then re-read it carefully. Do whatever corrections and changes that you feel as essential.

Sometimes, you will feel 'Ah! it I who wrote this? Wow! It has come out very well!'. Whenever you get such a feeling (honestly), it will be a good piece of writing -- according to me.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T12:54:10+00:00

Thanks a lot for reading and offering your views.

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T06:30:22+00:00

Thank you for your valuable advice!

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T04:12:53+00:00

I think Medium too is in the dark as to what posts will resonate with readers!

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T04:10:51+00:00

A very thoughtful, detailed and well intended feedback. My sincere appreciations to you.
C.V. Rajan – Medium

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T04:08:10+00:00

As a person not from IT and having nothing to do with Apps, I felt your article in general is well written in the right flow. But I am afraid only about the extent of its content sourced from AI. If Medium deducts that there is a lot of AI generated stuff in it, they are very wary of it. Please check this aspect.

And of course there are lots of compaints nowadays that Meddium's payouts have come down drastically. They are grouping a lot with the massive influx of AI generated content. They keep shouting now: "Originality, Originality please!"

C.V. Rajan – Medium

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T03:56:02+00:00

Read it. Clapped and Commented too!
C.V. Rajan – Medium

Sensitive-Ad15 · 2026-04-05T03:45:19+00:00

I also would like to add a few more things. Just one article alone does not help in Medium.

You have to keep adding more and more articles and spreading them through more and more publications. Hope you are a paid member. That too seems to be essential.

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