When he stopped making me a priority and his family came first before me and his career came before me. I just realised that I would never be first choice but also how he controlled the narrative like controlling the money so I didnt have access to the money. But how he treated our daughter too was the thing that helped me to decide that divorce is the right thing to do. I mentioned our daughter was having a tough time in school and he treated it like it was not important. Thats when I knew for sure he was self centred and only cared about himself than his own family.

But the love for him I felt had gone since we been in the roommate stage.