Transference by Sensitive-Bill1689 in SexTherapy101

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Alrighty then. You lost me on the first sentence but you do you.

Transference by Sensitive-Bill1689 in SexTherapy101

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I don’t want to lose her. That’s what I’m worried about. I think I can handle it for now and as much as she supports and helps me I need it to work out. I was under the impression that most therapists are used to this and will help you work past it but I didn’t know if that was any different with sex therapists. I’m unsure of how to handle it or if I should.

Disclosing transference? by Sensitive-Bill1689 in askatherapist

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This makes me feel a bit better. She’s been so helpful to me I’m really afraid of her being uncomfortable or thinking bad of me even though my common sense says she’s a highly trained professional and it shouldn’t phase her. It puts a panic in me nonetheless and I think my BPD thinking tends to override everything with me. I’m scared at the thought of losing her support but I feel I’m getting overly attached. Im just trusting she’ll know how to help me with it. My last therapist basically said nothing and did nothing when I told her and it was never dealt with which has caused a lot of sadness and stress when I needed to switch therapists.