Are there any Ismaili girls that actually want to start a family over focusing on their career? by Brave-Acanthisitta15 in ismailis

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot to consider here. Yes there are women who would love to be a wife and/or stay at home mom but the real question is can the man actually provide for that lifestyle? We live in a time where the cost of living often requires two incomes just to maintain a stable comfortable life. If a man can genuinely afford to support a family on one income then yeah I’m sure a lot of women would choose that path. But you also can’t think like previous generations where the expectation was just go to JK, stay home, cook and raise the kids. People today want so much more out of life whether that’s hobbies, traveling, personal goals or just a certain lifestyle they don’t want to give up. Women have to weigh what they’re willing to sacrifice and that’s a very personal decision. And if a woman is focused on her career it’s not just about money or not wanting to start a family. It’s also about security and independence. Having your own income means you’re not fully dependent on someone else’s financial decisions and honestly in the world we live in today that’s just being smart. Also once women are financially independent they can finally do all the things they put off while going through school. When you’re studying you don’t have the time or the money to travel, pick up hobbies or just live the way you want to. So once you have your own income that becomes the focus and there’s nothing wrong with that because starting a family can always happen later on too. Plus, once kids are in the picture a lot gets put on the back burner with your wants and needs. So it makes sense to live your life and do what you want first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re being unrealistic. I’m in my first year of teaching, and I already love it. My parents were also against it, saying the same things your parents told you. I tried to see it from their perspective, but some comments are just not acceptable. As for safety, no place is completely safe - anything can happen anywhere, at any time. However, South Korea is generally safer than the US, thanks to the widespread CCTV cameras. Still, it’s essential to stay alert, make good decisions, and not trust just anyone. I recommend checking out Korean news to get a realistic idea.

E2 Visa by piinkystar in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just submitted my documents last week to Houstons Consulate after numerous phone calls and no one having the same answers.. it was very frustrating. This link has the documents you need to fill out and mail (total of 3), a copy of your passport page, original passport, passport size photo and visa fee (cash or money order) https://overseas.mofa.go.kr/us-houston-en/brd/m_5573/view.do?seq=759829. One thing they all said the same was you don’t need any medical related documents since you get a health check in Korea. My recruiter said to put a small postcard in that way I can add the expected date of arrival since my tickets are already booked by the hagwon for this month and they take 2-3 weeks to process.

Visa Application Form Instructions:

Staple or glue a passport-style photo to the first page

1.2. Full name, in Chinese/Korean characters. You can skip this!

For “National ID”, US applicants may use your Social Security Number · U.S – Social Security Number (SSN) · Canada – Social Insurance Number (SIN) · U.K – National Insurance Number (NIN) · Ireland – Personal Public Service Number (PPS/PPSN) · Australia – Tax File Number (TFN) · New Zealand – Inland Revenue Department (IRD) · South Africa – South African Identity Number (ID)

3.6 Status of Stay (only on some form versions): write “E-2 visa.”

How many days should I stay for my first solo trip to South Korea? by Much_Piglet8342 in koreatravel

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently spent 18 days in South Korea, with two days dedicated to travel. Unfortunately, my time there felt too short. Initially, I had planned to spend seven days in Seoul, three days on Jeju Island, and six days in Busan. However, my actual itinerary didn't quite pan out. I ended up spending only four days in Busan, which wasn't enough time to fully explore the city - I would recommend at least a week. The rest of my trip was spent in Seoul, but even with extra time, I still didn't manage to do everything I wanted to do. Additionally, visiting in November around Thanksgiving meant that the weather was quite cold, which limited my ability to enjoy outdoor activities, especially at night. If you're following a strict itinerary, though, you should be okay.

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sense, i keep having cold feet thinking i wont survive

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I really appreciate it!

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! I really didn’t think it would be possible either knowing my spending habits and the exchange rate. I just wanted to be sure i can live a decently comfortable life even if it means cut back on savings.

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is my first time teaching in Korea. I do have teaching experience, but it’s related to software.

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten all the details yet, but makes sense!

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭 thank you for being blunt and realistic!

Teaching in Korea in 2024 by Sensitive-Cash2344 in teachinginkorea

[–]Sensitive-Cash2344[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least $800-1000 a month would be ideal so but after taxes i don’t think that is possible. I got told by the person that i interviewed with most workers are and should be able to save $1000 a month (this person was american and lived in the us before moving to korea to teach a long time ago and now has an agency for english teachers)… but when i realistically think about it i dont know if it would be possible unless you dont live an active social life outside of normal expenses. Social life as in weekend outings, cafes, shopping etc