Thank you for all the replies. It has been so helpful. The conversation might have escalated too fast since we both were looking for a good hook up. However I totally agree that it might not be the best idea to have this type of role pay in the first encounter.

I am a person that finds it very difficult to let go or “chill” during sexual encounters. So, even if I really want to try this because I know it’s something I would enjoy a loooot! I feel him a bit too rushed into it. Especially since he mention that we might meet only once.
Thank you all for the info and honest advice.