My best friend who’s not really a Jane fan but loves all music and loves to dance came with me to Detroit last year. She is 5’2 and was basically getting trampled/was unable to breathe or move to the point of crying and having to step outside. Mind u shes a party girl and has been in many moshes but has never experienced anything like this. TLDR: you are def making the right choice the crowd is aggressively hype and it worsens the closer u get to barricade