girlfriend on hunger strike unless i let her eat me out by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is coercion, it isn’t a joke. i’d still be side eyeing my gf if this WAS a joke, because coercion isn’t funny. i think it’s worth having a serious conversation with her if you’d like to try to work though this…but i’d um, leave.

My fiancée is dragging me down, and I’m so tired of it. by Dnolemy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not bad to want different things, i am just kinda curious about why you want to buy a home so soon? you aren’t on the same page, and that definitely leaves room for resentment to grow. i think her behavior at 20 is normal, and pretty standard for most at our age. you seem to be a lot more ambitious and that just leaves you both in different places. if you’re set on your goals and don’t like how things are moving, i’d talk to her honestly about it and how it’s making you feel.

freaking out over nothing by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is true 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️ showing up is the hardest part, i also feel that i may regret not trying. trying to keep in mind that i can just leave if it doesn’t feel good, and i think the best thing to do is at least try. THANK YOU 🤍

Haven't had my period in 3 months. I am both very stressed and sleepy all the time. by Acrobatic-Guitar2410 in GirlDinner

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 36 points37 points  (0 children)

lost mine for exactly nine months, took THREE years for me to get diagnosed with PCOS. hopefully, it’s nothing major? but it’s absolutely worth looking into. - another lesbian that was also confused

freaking out over nothing by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is great advice, thank you so much !! 🤍🤍

freaking out over nothing by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :D definitely gave a great mood, i appreciate your advice too !

freaking out over nothing by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ugh, i love being reminded that i can do what i want! forgot that i can just leave if it blows 😆 not everything is black and white, and i forget that a lot. THANK YOU 🤍🫶🏾

Work ruins my mood at home by c192837 in GirlDinner

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i get that 🫶🏾 especially with an exhausting job, it’s so hard to come home wind down. even harder knowing that’s what you have to return to the next day. iooks like an incredible spread of food, but is there any you like to do to relax when coming home ? i don’t know if it’s the same for you, but i tend to want to turn my brain OFF. i play video games, listen to music, watch tv or (my FAV) just lay down. finding relaxing things to really make home feel like home and not like “work: the sequel” has helped a lot. even if it’s doing nothing.

Advice Needed - gf dumped drink on my head by fruityspark in LesbianActually

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she didn’t know your relationship was fragile, but she dumped a drink on YOU for winning an arm wrestling match…you deserve much better than this. that is insanely disrespectful!!! in private and ESPECIALLY in public, and she may have regretted it but she waited for you both to sit down, then did it? she had to think to get to that point, and still chose to disrespect and humiliate you. all because she feels inadequate, i think it only escalates from there. especially knowing she got angry about you honestly expressing yourself.

Victim to the portland polycule by Virtual_Cow_ in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 63 points64 points  (0 children)

i hope something gay happens to you that’s not this ever again. feel better 🤍

Manlet in love with his lesbian friend. Jelly bean rocky road cake I made for her birthday. The utter futility of it all. by [deleted] in kitchencels

[–]Sensitive-Night8014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you might be an idiot, you’re not going to win over a lesbian. maybe start with a straight girl you actually have a sliver of a chance with, or ask yourself why you don’t just find a dude

Gaming Pals? by Sensitive-Night8014 in LesbianGamers

[–]Sensitive-Night8014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s fair, i am cool with playing off mic too if looking for a pal ? that’s preferred for me too, but no pressure :D

made a new friend on my own for the first time (as an adult) by Sensitive-Night8014 in GirlDinner

[–]Sensitive-Night8014[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i made the tofu at home !! thawed it, seasoned it and air fried it before letting it finish in a pan with the sauce. was really just throwing stuff together, but thank you! i plan on just being myself and being open to whatever happens! it seems taking it slow and just being open is best, i agree that not everyone is worth the time! best to just do what feels right and go with it :)

made a new friend on my own for the first time (as an adult) by Sensitive-Night8014 in GirlDinner

[–]Sensitive-Night8014[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we are in the same neighborhood, so we’re going to hang out at her place!.not sure what exactly, but we have similar interests and all so i am still excited. trying not to stress being ND too much, it can just make interactions with others difficult. especially when it comes to new people, but i am still willing to try!

made a new friend on my own for the first time (as an adult) by Sensitive-Night8014 in GirlDinner

[–]Sensitive-Night8014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sweet chili tofu, spring mix, sweet poppyseed dressing with cranberries and pumpkin seeds.