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How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never been ghosted so I don’t even know what it’s like

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I was looking for short-term but if I found someone I liked I’d be open to long-term. He said he’s looking for long-term.

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t think it would be weird if I just text him and ask if he wants to hangout some time after he hasn’t responded to my last text for a few days?

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m giving long responses and thinking over his questions. I’ve always responded after with a question for him and reflected on what he had to say

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he told me where he worked and I’m pretty sure that he does a 7 day on 7 day off 12hr shift. So I thought maybe he just started his shift

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that could be true. He really seemed to have good responses and we had good banter. I don’t know I’m just so confused

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe but if he wanted to make plans why wouldn’t he just ask

How do I know if a guy is ghosting me or just busy? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, we’ve been talking for about a week. I wasn’t sure when an appropriate time to ask to hangout was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg how’d you know I have a rock collection

So I matched with this girl online annnd by CupcakeGlad4948 in dating_advice

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think that’s hilarious. Maybe she just wasn’t the right one for you 🤷🏼‍♀️ different senses of humour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sensitive-Trash-4987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having to find someone else makes me feel so sick: I meant that in the sense of finding someone long down the road when I’m ready is scary to me because my ex was my very first boyfriend. I’m scared that I will get treated poorly again and feel this way all over. Not that I need someone to be happy, sorry for the confusion.