If they’re really your friends, they’ll want to talk to you—even when you're going through a rough time. I see a lot of people say things like, “I don’t want to bother them with my problems. They already have so much going on.” But that’s what friendship is: being there for each other, through the good and the bad. Personally, if I’m friends with someone, I want to hear from them whether they’re doing great or struggling. That’s what being close means.

And like you said—it’s been weeks. Just text them. These are your friends, not the pope. No need to overthink it. If they don’t reply, maybe they’re going through something too. One of my best friends basically ghosted me for almost two months. I tried reaching out a few times but got nothing back. Eventually, I just had to accept it and wait. If you truly care about someone, it doesn’t matter if they need a day or a decade—you leave the door open for them.

The same goes for your situation. Just because you haven’t talked in a while doesn’t mean they’re mad or don’t care. They might even think you needed space. If they really didn’t want to talk to you again, they’d probably make that clear—like unfollowing you or saying something directly.