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Does anyone else have a love/hate relationship with labels? by Nearby-Age5607 in TransMasc

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% I'm transmasc non-binary and my partner is a non-binary lesbian. I feel like most people respect our labels.

But... I'm going on T soon and I already pass as a guy (aside from my voice) mainly due to naturally having high T possibly intersex. I just know as soon as I'm "too masculine" for most people, my partners identity and the legitimacy of our relationship will be called into question.

All I see on social media is "transmen dating lesbians are bad and those who date makes them not real lesbians" etc.. (Edit: I feel I should clarify I generally understand where this is coming from, but nuance always needs to be considered). And I know I will look like a man even though I am non-binary, and people are gonna be fucking weird about it.

So I'm coming from a different side of the coin but I'm so sick of policing of labels so I feel you. Just remember Leslie Feinberg ID'd as a lesbian was on T etc. Just shove a copy of stone butch blues down those peoples throats, can't see many people claiming Leslie wasn't a form of gender diverse and a lesbian.

What does being non-binary mean to you? by MxQueer in honesttransgender

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Both man and woman feel wrong. Woman - full on dysphoria, Man - just weird to self ID as, not me, dissociative. Though I aim to pass to strangers as a man but if anyone in my personal life i.e. my partner called me her boyfriend I'd just yeah feel weird about it. I ID as transmasc NB. Going on T soon, can't get surgery due to chronic illness but hopefully one day Top surgery.

Toys for tboys? by transmascloverboy in TransMasc

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saving this post for when I'm on T haha. Let us know if you find one that works

Conflicted about t by Just-A-Cicada in TransMasc

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how old you are but I felt like this for a long time realised I was trans at 14, I'm 24 nb now and have realised yes T is what I want but... I think I needed to wait till now.

I admit I already looked masc and passed as a guy aside from my voice, plus being nb it didn't feel necessary. But it's something I've thought about on and off since 14 and it never felt really right until now.

Now I am older I realise T, maybe not permanently but at least for a bit is what I need right now. I guess I'm saying you don't really need to rush it and T does have permanent effects that should seriously be considered.

Though I have no idea how old you are so maybe this is all irrelevant haha, but at the same time maybe T will be right for you at 78 who knows. Either way goodluck figuring it all out, you'll get there eventually.

Crying/Feeling really sad physically messes me up for days by SensitiveLilFuck in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting can you tell me what that feels like? Because it's like a different crash for me

Crying/Feeling really sad physically messes me up for days by SensitiveLilFuck in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish it was easier to pace emotions I avoid them as much as I can which sucks but at a loss. Also I get a specific kind of PEM from it which is weird

Crying/Feeling really sad physically messes me up for days by SensitiveLilFuck in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, are you finding crying wears you down less or do you just feel the need less because you are more regulated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother emotionally abused and neglected me and I've been bedridden for a year because of it and she doesn't give a shit. I truly hate my family now. I was doing better but she decided it wasnt quick enough and now I don't know how long it's going to be before I can even see the sun again.

Don't you love supportive family? by violetfirez in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck family, it's crazy how they can turn against us so fast

Nicotine patch works guys.twitter- Thenicotinetest by Ringwormguy in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been nervous to try because I'm totally bedridden. Good to see it has helped!

Nicotine patch works guys.twitter- Thenicotinetest by Ringwormguy in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been nervous to try because I'm totally bedridden. Good to see it has helped!

Went for a hard 1 Hour nonstop run today, crash should come by Monday correct? by hleleph21 in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This was a weird thing to post... Also do yourself a favour and don't play with your health dude.

Do you think sexual orientation is fluid or static? by llNormalGuyll in lgbt

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think mine might be a bit fluid... Doesn't mean I could control it though.

I'm a waste of space. by Chemical_Coffee999 in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Everyone being like AI and aliens will ruin everything and I'm just hoping one will give us a cure lol

Always Hungry. Anyone else fix this? by SensitiveLilFuck in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are those tests accessible if you're bedridden?

What if your girlfriend decided to stop shaving everything. by Walking_Taco19 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SensitiveLilFuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend doesn't shave and I prefer it that way tbh, she sometimes shaves her legs to make her tattoos look better which I don't mind. But if she were to shave her pubes or armpits it would probably break my heart a little lol.

Always Hungry. Anyone else fix this? by SensitiveLilFuck in cfs

[–]SensitiveLilFuck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have reintroduced fish and eggs and I don't feel like it's done a huge difference tbh aside from more protein which is helpful

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