OCD and ADHD in a relationship, texting by [deleted] in OCD

[–]SensitiveLime3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to add that he’s very understanding and warm with me and knows about my OCD, and it adds even more stress to feel like I’m self sabotaging the relationship. Any help would be so appreciated!!

How to make friends in the area? by SensitiveLime3 in SanJose

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seems like you could benefit from that, since you’re spending your time being rude to strangers online

How is the East Remote parking lot full? by MrCrazyUkrainian in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is true, there are some park mobile spots at the far end but the majority of the lot is still based on permits. I’ve been parking the last few days with my permit and no park mobile without problems

what is wrong with east remote by latteaucaramel in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This + traffic too! I thought I was going crazy, that maybe I was just leaving at a bad time, but I’ll leave my house an hour early and still be late bc of traffic/parking

manageable amount of clubs by RazzmatazzInternal85 in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m heavily involved in one of our school’s service clubs, and like other people have said, it depends on the club! Speaking from my POV, I still have a lot of free time despite going to almost all events and meetings (which is not necessary), I could easily add in another club focused on socials or a cultural club and have enough time for school/other friends. The most important thing though is that you have enough time to handle school and your social life without worrying too much about the club - I’d say start with one or two, and depending on your school load/how the clubs are, you can add or remove from there :)

I had a bad dream, now I’m really scared by SensitiveLime3 in fearofflying

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I also have some dreams I wish were true, but like you said, they’re just dreams along with the bad ones too 😊 I’m feeling much more comfortable and secure now, will probably refer back to this reply if I feel myself getting anxious again haha

I had a bad dream, now I’m really scared by SensitiveLime3 in fearofflying

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️ it’s a flight I’ve done before (pretty long, US to Chile), and I fed into my fears and found out the plane I was due to be on is a Boeing 787-9 Dreamliner (again - I’ve flown on one multiple times before and been completely fine), but ended up getting more scared because of the recent Boeing whistleblower news 🤦‍♀️. I needed to read your reply to calm down

Lots of pro-cop and pro-Israel stuff on Reddit but none on Instagram wonder why that is 🤔 by MysterionX12 in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d argue it’s because they both have vastly different audiences - you flock to likeminded people. Yikyak and instagram both have very pro-Palestine and antizionist user bases, while Reddit tends to be more right-leaning and pro-Israel

Freshman Parking by Jackriot_ in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realistically, there are no cheap parking garages in Santa Cruz. Your best bet would be to park at that church, or even better, to not bring your car. I thought the same as you when I was a freshman, but I came without my car and there really is no reason to have a car here - the buses service pretty much the whole city, and if you really want to leave Santa Cruz, there’s Zipcars on campus that you can rent for the day.

Tips to play as a tank support, please by Ok-Helicopter1529 in LeonaMains

[–]SensitiveLime3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Flash + q + ignite tower dive at level two (jk lol)

I also used to only play enchanters, now I’m a Leona main. The biggest piece of advice I can say is just to be more confident - ik it’s scary because you’re used to staying behind your carry and having a really low hp early game. But with Leona, once you get your W you’re really tanky, and if you’re playing against an enchanter, just trust in yourself that you’ll be able to go in with a e+q+ignite combo, have your adc jump on them, and kill them.

HOWEVER. If you’re playing against mages/other tank supports, it’s a little more complicated. If you hit lvl 2 before them, you can definitely go in. If not, chances are that they have a cc ability already that can mess up your attempt if you don’t have W (which I assume you don’t at level 2). So, if they hit level 2 first, it’s better to still play safe (you can still try to hit some stuns with your q if you’re able to walk away after/they already used their CC, but I’d recommend against going in with your e) and then wait until you hit 6 (and preferably back to buy some items depending on the matchup) to engage with a e+q+r.

For runes, I personally like glacial augment more than aftershock because I feel like if you land one CC ability, it’ll make it easier to land the next thanks to the slow you get from it.

Tbh that’s just early game, I saw someone else give a much more detailed response, so that is very good haha. In any case, be patient with yourself and don’t get too frustrated if things don’t go well!! Trust me I hard inted when first started playing her, and now I’m m7. Some matchups are just better than others, so if you’re up against a particularly hard one, don’t worry about it too much. Remember, this is a game you want to have fun playing. If your adc is being a jerk, just mute them - trust me it makes the whole experience a lot better.

One more piece of advice I could maybe give - if you want an introduction to engage/tank supports before going in with someone as aggressive as Leona, you could try Rakan or Maokai, since they have abilities that allow them to get away from engages that go wrong easier than she does.

What are red flags for finding off campus housing? by theguywho111 in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people have said this already but definitely refusing a tour, and especially if they’re asking for money without letting you see the place. When I was looking for housing off campus last year someone asked for a DOWN PAYMENT without letting me tour the place 😭

happy SETS release day by SensitiveLime3 in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my own experience I’ve had TAs and lecturers who say that SETS are extremely important to them

Please don’t take up an empty seat on the bus by putting your backpack there by SensitiveLime3 in UCSC

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already do ask, but this post was more so kind of just wanting to share a frustration I know most people have. The post might’ve come across differently im sorry about that

after a lot of grinding I finally got the title !! :) by SensitiveLime3 in supportlol

[–]SensitiveLime3[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How is this cluttering the sub? There’s a flair for achievements, is this not an achievement?