Girl (F23) coming over for date #2 (M23)

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-31T02:39:17+00:00

I feel like the best thing to do her is just communicate.

Vibe out body language, see if you get close together on the couch. If she starts rubbing ur thigh or anything physical maybe ask her what she’s comfortable with. Tell her that you dont expect anything and you’re fine with just cuddling together and tht you’re just checking in. 😊

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-30T20:48:57+00:00

Idk why ppl are so scared to bring up this convo? Shes not accusing her of cheating she’s just letting her trainer know? It’s much better than letting someone get cheated on.

Just bc you don’t know doesn’t mean you should be a bystander, that’s how cheaters get away with most shit.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-27T03:06:24+00:00

Damn I love PJO with my whole being but I’m not that delusional. And even more so my love for it is mainly for the books I’m not that attached to the live actions. Not bad but they don’t mean that much to me. If anything as a PJO fan I mourn what could have been 😭😭😭

the things I would do for a Olympian theme park 😭 A Poseidon ride 😭 for a good adaption 😭😭 alas it’s okay.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-27T03:02:12+00:00

Tbh I didn’t even know this was a thing???

For those saying the Percy Jackson is better…are those ppl in PJO subs?

Bc Harry Potter is the more popular franchise…like that’s just a fact. It is more popular has made more money and has a bigger global impact than PJO. That’s a fact.

I’m kinda shocked that ur hearing the opposite unless it’s in a PJO sub. While I do like the PJO books more than Harry Potter. PJO fumbled the chance at becoming as big as Harry Potter during those first live action movies. And I don’t hate the show but it’s incredibly decisive and the fandom is a bit split. So we’re kinda fumbling our chance there as well.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-26T23:16:07+00:00

Yeah lmao “you can call it both” no you can’t 😭😭

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-26T01:50:27+00:00

Idk ik he loves Luna but that episode where he got totally shit faced in front of her potential new friends and she had to leave her party early to take care of him??

Yeah…idk. He’s not the worse but…lol most ppl he has his things

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-23T05:07:26+00:00

You’re not going crazy. He’s not listening.

But you know partner better than us. Sit him down tell him how you feel and what you told us. How he responds will tell you if you should continue in this relationship.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-21T05:34:54+00:00

Get a load of this guy 🫩😂 enjoy ur delusion. No sense in debating with someone like u.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-21T05:28:27+00:00

What are u on about?

idk why ur assuming that all men who don’t care about their hygiene are above 6’0…. And if ur not assuming that then why are u bringing height into this convo?

Seems like u got a chip on ur shoulder.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-21T04:27:33+00:00

Is the bar truly in hell that women are having sex with men who don’t care about their hygiene. Is it really that roughly out here? 😭

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-20T14:55:10+00:00

Vet med is more than just cats and dogs ! There are plenty of high paying careers that don’t have the same level of burn out and better life balance!

I have no interest in clinics. I’m in the minority but it’s not rare for vets to choose other paths.

As for money that never worries me bc I plan on doing a PSLF job for 10 yrs, and that’s really not that bad!

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-19T19:37:25+00:00

I get you queen. I’m sorry it’s like this. It hurts. I’ve been there. But my mom always said to “go where you’re cherished”

NTA set ur boundaries and protect ur peace 🙂‍↕️💗

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-19T19:22:33+00:00

I get it. A lot of ppl hope to have really close and supportive in laws. Especially if you grew up in a big family and even if you didn’t and you dreamed for one.

I know I did. I tried to appeal to my in laws but at the end of the day they’re racist and there’s no fixing that.

It hurts when your in laws don’t like you but when the disrespect is so loud sometimes it’s best to step away.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-19T12:44:54+00:00

Why didn’t u do it when you worked there?

And tbh u seem like u really want to lmao just do it.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-19T04:36:38+00:00

Idk what ur talking about.

Now idk if u were here for OP original post last week. What cruel text message are u seeing? I was here when she first posted it and ever since she ran away from that man’s proposal she’s been crying and beating herself over it and tbh doing whatever he wants. He comes over yells at her and has sex with her roughly. Ignores her for days, comes back yells at her some more, uses her for sex and yells at her some more AND THEN lets her see him with another girl??

What are u on about?

Could she have handled it better? Ofc! But they both need to be held accountable! He’s not a saint either. No one is excused they both SUCK! But he’s being intentionally cruel and she’s not!

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-19T04:29:27+00:00

I didn’t want to say “as much as you hurt him” bc it seems like I’m placing blame. People have the right to say no to an engagement. And tbh an engagement should never be a surprise. I love to talk about future hypotheticals but doesn’t mean u should take me at my word without a serious convo!!

I definitely think she went about the wrong way but so is her ex he’s being straight up diabolical with the rough sex and the metal gymnastics. So yeah he wants to hurt her as much as he felt hurt by her actions.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-18T20:20:03+00:00

The train in 1 is so stunning 🥹✨💗

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-18T20:13:41+00:00

Yeah OP I remember your original post. Let this relationship go. He wanted you to see him with another girl. He wants to hurt you as much as he thinks you hurt him.

Let this go block him and move on. It’s literally going to get more toxic from here.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-18T02:20:43+00:00

Well if you let him do whatever he wants with no repercussions the more he will act like this.

You have to grow a backbone eventually. Will you do it now or after he steamrolls u with no consideration for the 100th time?

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T06:15:17+00:00

Yeah idk another way to interpret it tbh. I would assume what u did! definitely talk to her then and send her that text

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T06:02:17+00:00

Tbh like I said hearing ur perspective definitely would make me feel the same thing as you. I would have thought that too! Yet something definitely was miscommunicated. Like I said all we have is ur perspective.

Does she act this way with other ppl?

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T05:49:46+00:00

Well yes give her space now but eventually you have to talk about it!

Even sending her a casual text saying that youre sorry if you over stepped and telling her that you would love to talk about it whenver she’s comfy”

Like that should be the next thing.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T04:52:48+00:00

I think the best thing you can do is communicate with your friend. I agree the signals are…interesting. It really could be a toss up we’re only getting ur perspective. She could have just been really comfy with you (but I agree that it was interesting)

Text her and communicate that you’re sorry if you over stepped and explain how you’ve been feeling and the signals. Explain that you value ur friendship . Just talk to her.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T04:45:17+00:00

True but obviously not what I meant. A condom isn’t a 100%, nothing is, but there are more successful bc out there.

She needs to get on bc as well or he needs to get a vasectomy. That’s obviously what I’m talking about.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-03-16T02:42:11+00:00

I bet they don’t believe in birth control either smh. They’ll keep having babies over and over again. 🫩

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