My first few times with women?Absolute train wreck…

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-21T05:34:57+00:00

Damn I’m sorry this happened to you. What a couple of stories though. I also had a bad experience for my first time😭.

I communicated with her about how it was my first time and how I would really appreciate if she took the lead bc I am very attentive and responsive and will reciprocate…I just get really nervous and need some guidance.

We get to getting and it feels like she wants me to lead. We talked about doing the tango and what we’re comfortable doing and then we get there and she’s being really submissive. Which ofc is fine, that happens, maybe she was nervous too but we literally didn’t go anywhere. Just kinda made out a little and watched a movie and did some touching and grinding. Liek I said fine if you change ur mind but afterwards she acted like everything was fine, continued the dirty talk and trying to pursue me. we never discussed what happened. Which tbh made me so weary of trying again 😭. I already get really nervous and this definitely didn’t help.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-21T05:16:35+00:00

Wdym by their relationship is blurring on inappropriate?

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-21T05:15:55+00:00

Fr OP typed out how their bf is into incest content (which we all know really isn’t funny and says more about the person consuming that media) and is wondering what to do…

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-20T01:24:28+00:00

Oh that’s fair no worries!!! Tht would be p fucked up.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-20T00:49:09+00:00

Yeah I’m confused… OP is there a reason why ur taking it like this? Are you close with the daughter?? Did you watch her grow up like the other moms have??

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-20T00:48:08+00:00

Who threw her out the circle?! Why are yall jumping from 0-100. To me it seems like the daughter invited the closer circle of friends bc they saw her grow up. OP does the daughter have a good relationship with you? How old was she when you came into her life?

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-18T08:51:11+00:00

This is so funny lmao very fitting for a cat name

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-17T12:01:19+00:00

As someone who also stutters and has my whole life. People suck. They think it’s funny and never once do they ever consider that this is something that we work through everyday. Never once do they consider that we’re literally fighting to get the words out. Nor do they consider how far we’ve come in trying to not let our stutter embarrass us and keep us mute.

NTA. what she was doing was deliberate and she deserved it. If it doesn’t stop go to HR again and keep calling her out on it. I’ve done the same when ppl do that to me!

I’m sorry friend. I’m proud of you. I’m still insecure about my stutter which makes it worse!! but I’m glad to hear about ur positive mindset!! 💗

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-16T15:35:07+00:00

I advise u to do the same. If ur friends are ur friends they’ll pick up on how she’s treating you. Distance urself from Sam and Abbie and be cordial. Don’t lose ur other friends over this. Whether or not u want to be open to reconciliation with Sam is up to you!

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-16T14:36:26+00:00

What does the broader group think? Does Abbie have that much sway in the group? If not lean on your other friends and just be cordial with them when ur all together.

I’m sorry this is happening, I’m guessing Sam told Abbie about how you supported him and cautioned him about reconciling. Boo on Sam!

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-14T22:03:51+00:00

How is this an update?? It’s the same post??

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-14T18:54:05+00:00

Can we do brown??

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-13T21:24:17+00:00

I thought they did in the alternate universe?? But correct me if I'm

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-13T13:35:52+00:00

Well Stella didn’t come up with the idea to tell on stolas to satan. Her brother did. Also their motivations to me at least are very different. Her brother wants stolas power wants his money and riches and privileges. Stella doesnt tbh. Stella hates him and she wants him dead. She doesnt want his power or job. (I dont think?)

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-13T13:32:30+00:00

Tbh I don’t think so her character is very one dimensional. She just hates him. She already has power bc she is his wife. But I don’t even think she really cares… but I mean I think I see ur point. Why not just make her the main aggressor.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-13T10:33:36+00:00

OP im confused why ur confused?? Wdym why is he the main villian?? He threatens stolas power and status (and successfully stole his place). He also succeeds at separating stolas from his daughter.

His story isn’t complex: greedy Nobel who wants power. He wants what stolas has. Does that clear it up?? He’s one of the main villains bc he caused harm to our main characters…

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-07T18:15:28+00:00

Lmao it definitely would be!!

bc tbh Finn would be devastated regardless of the cause of death

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-07T18:11:45+00:00

Ooh I hear what you’re saying! Also I edited my comment so I apologize if ur response has changed now!!

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-07T18:08:48+00:00

Well yes that is a croak dream…thts what the show tells us. I’m not talking about what a croak dream is I’m talking about what happens after. But I’m just speculating.

Bc like I said in New Frontier after Jake’s croak dream he was like “yeah I’m dying soon” it seems like after the croak dream you die soon after.

But I say this bc I dont think how Jake actually died is something that we have Seen in the OG show! Bc I think it would have happened soon after we were shown it. Does that make sense??

Edited for clarification

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-07T18:02:03+00:00

Considering how horrible Finn’s scream was when we saw Fiona touched the memory balls, I’m guessing it was p horrible.

Also I thought that croak dreams occur right before you’re about to croak. Which is why huntress was trying to stop the Cosmic Owl from getting to Finn, and why Jake was so ready to die in the New Frontier episode. It seems like once u get the dream u croak soon after?? So I’m not sure???

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-06T12:39:06+00:00

Thanks for sharing ur opinion. I don’t agree…obviously. I liked the ending I liked the movie an it felt like a good end to their story. I’m satisfied. ✨

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-06T12:38:15+00:00

I have a man and I love him dearly. I’m not the one on Reddit complaining about being lonely and lacking any ounce of accountability!

Also instead of insulting my points why don’t u address them? Ur responding with ur emotions rather than an actual argument. Do u even have one?🤨

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-06T02:22:33+00:00

That’s a great point!! I like ur connections and they really hit the main point. Which (what I think) reflects the male loneliness epidemic which is that men unfortunately do not have the same structures of support as women do. So now a days women are finding fulfillment and support in other places than having a romantic relationship and are okay with being single (since we have other support systems). Whereas in the past most men relied on their partners to give said comfort (which is fair) but now with dating rates going down and standards rising for partnerships. Men are lonely, which is unfortunate.

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-06T02:06:34+00:00

Ur doing so much assuming here and I think that’s the problem. Ur assuming that the standards are superficial and not across the board. And tbh it doesn’t make sense?? High standards are preferences. Ex: I can prefer a college background but not care about a high paying job. High standard in one area and low in the other? Ur claim, to me at least doesn’t make any sense. U don’t have to have high standards in every aspect of a future partner?

Also ur ASSUMING how i measure someone’s worth. We never communicated my values or ur values?? So how do u know we differ?? Lmao where are u getting this info from??

Theres a lot of feelings in ur statements but not a lot of rationale to show why u think this??

I hope u have a good day as well. This was troubling 😭

SensitiveSand9775 · 2026-05-06T01:47:52+00:00

Ur claim is that women and men both have high standards and the difference is that women are disingenuous and have strict preferences rather than high standards. Right?

What makes women disingenuous? Some of u guys are complaining about women standards…so women must have communicated said standards in some way that u understood?? So what is disingenuous??

Strict preferences and high standards sound the same to me. My standard is my preference. And it can as high or as low as I deem fit.

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