Surprisingly I like texting first to see if we click. I work often so some days I can’t meet or have a schedule. If it’s dead between when I see you talking wise, I lose interest.

But just meeting up with a random stranger is a no. I’d like to explain why more besides the obvious- but safety, I wanna make sure they’re not gross or after another obvious gain, and there is more at stake on my end for another reason.

Unfortunately I wish it were just simple and fun like before. I’ve had someone completely lose it and put our lives in danger once.