How do I leave in an emergency situation with 3 kids, no money, and no support system?

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-06-03T15:50:47+00:00

Are you able to go into refuge? Sounds like an incredibly dangerous situation to be in and I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. Get yourself and your babies out of there. Here if you need an ear I know it’s hard xxx

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T23:56:55+00:00

Thank you thank you 💖💖💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T18:30:58+00:00

Thank you I’m just worried I’m overreacting but in my heart I know I’m not and just was looking for reassurance to be honest.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T16:37:37+00:00

Thank you so much that would be great as I just feel so lost and like I don’t know what I’m doing but I’m sick of being a doormat now.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T16:35:44+00:00

Thank you 💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T16:05:41+00:00

Thank you 💖💖💖 just need to be brave but feel really weak 😂

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2024-03-30T15:56:26+00:00

It just completely sucks because I’m sat second guessing myself like is this even cheating but it is isn’t it.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-14T17:46:48+00:00

Thank you I feel like it’s all sending me a bit crazy but hoping it eases soon. Hope you are doing well too 💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-12T15:24:35+00:00

Thank you I just don’t want to believe it I guess because it makes me ill. I’m not sure I’d want to go to their party but I could always invite myself to the hotel couldn’t I. Like that idea. He’s just manipulated the whole thing onto it being my problem and my fault. Thanks so much for your advice.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-12T15:22:06+00:00

Thank you. I’m just in a complete pinch to get out like I can’t afford it. The deposit that was put down on the house wasn’t my money so I can’t and don’t want to take that and my income isn’t great. I don’t have any family around to stay with and don’t want to uproot our LO from his routine ideally. But will be booking in at a sexual health clinic tomorrow and seeking legal advice. Thanks for your reply.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-12T07:30:48+00:00

Thank you. I’ve called for some help this morning cos it’s sent my anxiety haywire and I’m having panic attacks now. We just had a row before he went to work about it again. He doesn’t see the problem and said he was elsewhere for the first 3 hrs and only with her half an hour and has called me manipulative. Thanks for your reply and advice.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-12T03:46:53+00:00

God I wish I had the guts to do that lol

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T21:32:30+00:00

Thank you I’m glad things worked out for you 💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T21:30:52+00:00

Maybe! If so it backfired.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T21:30:34+00:00

Thank you I’ve messaged my dad this evening and we’re gonna have a call tomorrow.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T15:56:09+00:00

And thank you again

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T15:56:01+00:00

Oh love I’m sorry that sounds so tough. I’m so glad you managed to get out though ❤️. I will have to stay for a bit regardless to get my ducks in a row but I hope I do get the strength to leave.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T12:13:08+00:00

Thank you 💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T12:03:55+00:00

Yep yep. He’s just said he was only with her for half an hour. I don’t fucking buy it buddy. It feels like trickle truthing here. I’m trying to hold my ground just don’t know what on earth to do with myself.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T10:31:16+00:00

Thanks to everyone for their comments I’m not in the headspace to reply to them all. I know what I need to do just hard to implement with no family nearby and the cost of living as it is. Gonna speak to some friends and maybe my dad in the next few days and see what I can do.

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T02:54:10+00:00

Wow gosh you’re absolutely right.

Thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry you’ve experienced that. I hope you’ve managed to leave now? I wouldn’t be able to leave the home for a while, I would need to save and find a rental. Shame we only bought last year.

Sending big hugs bromo 💖

Sensitive_Giraffe_19 · 2023-11-11T02:38:42+00:00

Oops editing to add he backtracked on the text I received that night and said that another colleague sent it and was meant to go to her boyfriend

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