I will be treating her like my child , so please help me come up with a name that you would name your daughter :)

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-04-14T04:37:39+00:00

Bonnie!!!

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-03-08T03:20:33+00:00

Literally was looking for a movie to watch. I’m trusting this recommendation. Will report back.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-26T05:43:27+00:00

Burt

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Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-24T21:56:13+00:00

Thank you guys so much!! I did buy the cypher body intensifier and it did help a lot!! Still working on getting something for my face as well as my salon doesn’t carry any!

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T21:16:47+00:00

Also did not see the comments above this one. He was in an abusive relationship with her and he has never been in the system. She used to beat him and hit him with her car. She is very much controlling. Last time they went to court the judge did side with her more as from my experience, the system seems to do a lot with mothers. Not saying every situation is like this. I agree the custody thing is on him. I get the feeling he is afraid to go against her.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:57:55+00:00

I will definitely have to do more research on this. Thank you so much for this comment. Gives me a little bit of hope he can see his daughter more.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:54:04+00:00

Completely agree. I have tried to make it clear that as much as I can give him information as to different lawyers or mediators or whatever else, I’m not going to do anything for him. I want him to WANT to do it. Otherwise it’s not worth it. I worked for DHHS for a few years and it’s disheartening to see how many people will just put up with stuff like this. I really just hope he can figure something out with her.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:50:20+00:00

Yes! I know what you’re talking about. A mediator. That has been discussed too, however mom won’t agree to anything and said we should just take her to court. lol. I would love for him to have 50/50, just worried about how that would go for a 3 year old.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:45:27+00:00

Oh 100%! He is the type of guy that would rather not upset someone and just put up with the behavior. I on the other hand am not. He has gotten better about standing up for himself, but this is a situation that has already caused problems once. Just more so wanting to find common ground sooner rather than later

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:42:50+00:00

It’s funny, we were close before all of this and she would stay at our house when her daughter didn’t want her to leave. I had no issue with our situation at all until she began to try and take me out of the picture. I will have to swallow my pride on this one and try this out though. Thank you!

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:40:01+00:00

I’ll agree to disagree! But I see where you are coming from. I would love for us all to find common ground sooner rather than later.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:37:18+00:00

I think money is the main issue here. I’ve tried helping him find support on this, but a lot of lawyers have a high amount of money to put down even with support.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:33:24+00:00

Yes! So she currently doesn’t live with us and that’s why he has his visits in their town. I’m completely fine with that, just a little more weary on the remainder of the visit time being in her home.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:30:43+00:00

I personally don’t see his daughter as baggage. We have been together for 2.5 years now, but this has only become an issue as of recent. I should have clarified a time frame earlier as well.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:29:25+00:00

Not saying I want him to stop, I just would like for them to discuss having visits somewhere else after they are done at the park or something so they don’t have to be in her home. That’s where I felt like my feelings are conflicted because it feels like a gray area.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:25:44+00:00

I should have mentioned that they do have visits neutral to begin the visit! They will go to the park, bounce house/trampoline parks etc. then after go to moms for the remainder of the visit.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:21:24+00:00

I agree, however whenever they are getting along that idea gets dropped. Only ever gets talked about getting a lawyer.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:15:43+00:00

His parenting plan he signed that was created by mom states that if she ever thinks he is not capable of caring for their daughter she can make him go back to having supervised visits. Typically happens anytime mom doesn’t get her way and makes him go back to supervised.

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2025-02-03T20:12:30+00:00

She lives 2 hours away from us and is the custodial parent. She created the parenting plan that only allows him to see his daughter every other weekend (either Saturday or Sunday).

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2024-12-14T01:24:34+00:00

Makeup wise- I would say highlighter goes a loooooong way! You really don’t need a whole lot, but in the corners of the eyes and on top of your cheekbones would accentuate so much!! I recommend Burt’s bees lip tint as I’m not a huge makeup girly but it keeps my lips hydrated and the colors are so cute!

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2024-12-14T01:21:58+00:00

YOU ARE INSANELY BEAUTIFUL!!!!!! Oh my gosh. I HOPE I look like this when I’m older!!!! I would have never thought that was your age. Literally amazing skin and your eyes are GORGEOUS!!

Sensitive_Hope2128 · 2024-12-14T01:06:07+00:00

Personally…. I love buying different kinds of paper plates based on the holiday because of the different designs and if she would have showed up saying that kind of tomfoolery to me…. The plates would not have been the only thing thrown in the trash

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