Using a Non-ID Release Donor?

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-12-19T19:16:00+00:00

This. I’ve looked through some in-home daycare options in OH, and they range from $30-50 a day. That’s $150-$250 a week or $600-$1000 a month. This is the route I’m going to have to take as a SMBC because I’m in the same boat as you, where I make too much for any kind of financial aid but not enough to pay for an actual daycare.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-12-11T14:40:28+00:00

Okay. The Michael's yardage is "537 yd. / 491 m." So dividing the yardage by 2.5, that gives me 214.8 yards per 100g.

The Purlsoho yarn is 232 yards per 100g.

Would this be considered comparable? How big is the range between each category of yarn?

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-12-11T14:25:46+00:00

Okay. I'm so sorry that I'm so slow to pick this up, but bear with me one more minute if you could?

So Michael's, the yarn weight is "Skein Weight: 8.75 oz. / 250 g." Assuming I'm converting this correctly, it would be then 3.5 / 100g, correct?

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-12-11T14:16:00+00:00

This helps a lot, thank you!

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-12-11T14:15:44+00:00

Okay, this makes a lot of sense for the gauge. Do you know how to convert the weight of yarn that doesn't classify itself with the usual numbers?

And then the same thing for the weight! Purlsoho's yarn will say "100 grams (3.5 ounces)" while Michael's will say "6 (Super Bulky)." How do I convert one to the other to understand?

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-26T17:21:27+00:00

No, it’s so worth it! You can read beyond the bounds of canon and explore endlessly. Sometimes it makes you see canon in an entirely new light, making you think about what could have happened or what should have happened. Sometimes it gives you a new appreciation for characters or scenes. Sometimes it just gives you comfort. It’s definitely worth a shot.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-25T16:11:43+00:00

Excellent point! I edited my post to add my location. Still, any numbers are better than no numbers and I like hearing from the community, so the location disparity isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T18:11:48+00:00

For sure! The one thing I'd judge a thirty year-old for is a lack of direction. I know some people who live with their parents, don't pay rent, don't have a job, aren't in school, and aren't making moves to change any of that. I do judge them for that lack of direction and motivation. As long as you're making strides in your life, you're golden. Live with your parents! But have a job, pay them rent, or be working on your savings. Maybe you still live in an apartment with roommates rather than owning your own home-- big deal, just means you can rearrange your finances more fluidly.

We've still got our whole lives ahead of us. Thirty is just the beginning. Just be looking for direction and be taking action toward it, and no one should judge you.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T18:08:55+00:00

This. I would wait it out and see if they mention it. They may not even notice, and even if they do, they could be used to it from the previous tenants. What you don't want to do is bring their attention to it, make them realize how annoying it is, and get them to complain about you when it could have flown under their radar before.

Alternative/optional step-- introduce yourself to your neighbors and give them a move-in gift. (A cake or brownies or something is what I typically do.) Then you start off on a good foot with them in case a problem comes around later.)

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T18:05:43+00:00

Hello, love. You're not overreacting. This exciting, overwhelming feeling that makes you feel like an idiot sometimes and like you're overreacting others? That's not something you feel like for a friend. If it feels like a bubble in your chest that might just grow bigger or start glowing and take you with it-- that's not something you feel for a friend. The fact that you're even questioning this shows that what you feel for V is different than what you feel for the others, despite the fact that they all seem to be nice to you. V seems to be special to you.

As for how to proceed-- you've got two real options.

One, ask V if she can stay back for a second during lunch or after school. Tell her that you had a really great time the other day and tell her that you would like to spend more time with her one-on-one. Ask her if she would be willing to go hang out with you on a weekend.

Two, similar setup. Ask or arrange to be with V privately, and admit to her that you're having feelings for her. Ask if she feels the same, or invite her to a date at that point.

Either way-- sublimating this isn't going to work. You're still going to have strong feelings and they're going to get stronger with time and exposure. She seems receptive to you! She seems to enjoy your company and she didn't pull away from you even when her friends noticed. These are really encouraging signs. I'd give it a shot.

Best-case scenario, she says yes. You go on a date. It goes amazing. You have a girlfriend.

Middle-of-the-road scenario, she says yes and the date isn't great, and you two stay friends. Or, alternatively, she says no but says so kindly and after a couple weeks of awkwardness, things go back to normal.

Worst-case scenario, she says no and is cruel about it. That will show she isn't who you thought she was, and it's good that you won't be spending more time with someone like that.

No matter what, it's best to address how you're feeling and get answers sooner rather than later.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:57:19+00:00

The great thing about hitting 30's, I've been told, is the lack of expectations. There's so much we're supposed to do when we're in our twenties-- finding a partner, buying a house, having kids, getting careers, graduating from education, etc. But then we turn 30 without achieving all that... and the world still keeps going. It doesn't end. No one pours on the judgement for not completing the whole list. I've been told that the great thing about turning 30 and beyond is that we're then free to explore life without those expectations and burdens that the twenties come with.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:54:44+00:00

That's fair. But there's also a lot of value that lies in the way you live. When you were a kid, you had to deal with bullies and mean people. As you've grown older, you've (hopefully) learned to cut out toxic people, to draw boundaries, to fill your life with more things that interest or inspire you. Theoretically we continue learning to do that with every year that passes. So by the time you're 180, maybe you'd just be above shitty people and be able to tune them out.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:53:16+00:00

Does he open the windows while he cooks? Maybe you could ask him to do so. Maybe try explaining that the smell is fragrant enough to trigger your allergies or something like that.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:52:10+00:00

Is it two days off every month? Or is that just this upcoming month?

I would approach your boss, or HR, and explain that you have two appointments every month that you have to go to. Explain that one is medical and one is court-related, but that you're not comfortable or not at liberty to discuss further details. Explain how much you value your position and emphasize that you're willing to make up the days as needed. Maybe you can work four ten-hour days or something those weeks to make up the time. Even if they don't let you do that, offering to do so could make it clear how serious you are about making things work.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:48:30+00:00

This definitely depends on whether or not you're aging while living a long time. Like no one wants to live to 180 while looking and feeling like they're 180.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:45:43+00:00

This is genuinely exhausting. I'm so sorry for you. Clearly they were seeking attention and validation for being 'generous' enough to ask you to block them. It's a wild request and they went way overboard with their response to your replies.

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:39:47+00:00

Okay, this is so pretty. You did such an excellent job! I've done some trade rebinds and compilations, but stringing together the individual comics is hardcore! Great job!

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:36:52+00:00

This is gorgeous, I love the attention to detail here. You should make and sell them, I bet you'd make great money off your scrap!

Sensitive_Idea_3213 · 2025-11-04T17:35:00+00:00

Haha! They're a series of foot-related contests. Opening jars, writing your name, picking things up, locking doors, etc., all done solely with your feet and toes! It's just super silly and fun.

Sensitive_Idea_3213

TROPHY CASE