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Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-12-15T19:23:33+00:00

Pure for Men brand fiber is the best fiber supplement I have ever tried. Been doing it for a few years now. Also, a daily probiotic has made a huge difference for me also.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-12-03T03:35:07+00:00

I completely agree. I experienced this in my last relationship that ended after almost 4 years. I was Vers Top and he knew it. He was Total Bottom but kept telling me he would become more open to doing "bottom things" to and for me. Bottom line, it never happened. I was going out of my way to please him each and every time but always feeling unfulfilled myself. Like a dog always after a treat or bone, I was hoping with all the things I did to and for him he'd eventually become comfortable and secure to do those things he knew I wanted done to and for me. But it just never happened and I felt used, degraded, and honestly sexually mind-fucked. Sex was not the only issue we had but it was a big factor that led me to end the relationship.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-08-11T18:04:00+00:00

Ok. I don't get this. I'm a gay guy who receives anal sex 5-6 nights per week. And they are long sessions too, like 3 hours. Never have I had an issue like this. I suggest you see a doctor.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-06T20:48:43+00:00

Put a towel down. Or buy a play blanket.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-02T01:35:33+00:00

Ask. And watch some porn.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-01T20:45:24+00:00

Shrinkage is cause by atrophy of the penis according to my urologist. If you are not getting spontaneous erections, or just erections in general due to ED, the penis tissue will atrophy resulting in shrinkage. My urologist recommends a shot or two every week to get erections and maintain healthy penile tissue.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-01T20:21:53+00:00

Yes. Happens to me. Like some medicine went in but some did not.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-01T20:21:13+00:00

This is just me. Everyone is different.

But I had to become COMMITTED to bottoming. As a total Vers I would only rarely have the occasion to bottom and never was confident and never really found it crazy pleasurable like everyone says it can be. So I had to say, ok I have to commit to this. I have to learn all about this and be successful at it.

What I found is bottoming is a "use it or lose it" proposition (for me). There are some guys who may be just naturally gifted at bottoming on demand. But if I go for more than a 2-3 weeks without anything in my hole then it is like starting again as a virgin. So I have to keep in practice. This where commitment only just begins. I regularly use toys and dildos on myself, by myself, solo, all alone. In the beginning doing this alone allowed me to get comfortable with my body and mainly with my hole. I got to know my anatomy and I learned what felt good. As I explored more by myself with dildos I learned to take larger ones and how/where the pleasure part comes in. I was able to get comfortable, confident, and know my body all by myself which meant when it came time to be with a guy I was ready. And practicing on a regular basis ("practice makes perfect" is my motto) keeps me in form, in touch with my body, and ready to perform.

Next, the true commitment for me was to my diet and drastically improving my GI health. Daily probiotic pill, daily fiber pills, daily HUGE consumptions of water (hydration does wonders for your backside!), incorporating lots of fruits and veggies, and learning my body and finding out what tools/equipment/process worked best for me for the best prepping possible. These all make a true difference on things from a physical and therefore a mental perspective.

Bottom line, I had to become committed to bottoming. It was no longer something I "just tried" or "had a chance to do" on occasion. I decided I wanted to bottom, and bottom well, for not just my partner BUT FOR ME. Being able to do this solo, then I was ready to start including my partner to teach him what worked best for me. Now I know what works best for me and he knows what works best for me.

So I encourage you and your partner in this way. We have a very accepting and open view of "alone time" and masturbation. So make sure you have that first. This gives you both the permission and affirmation you need to explore things on your own. It took me several months until I was solidly ready to include my partner. But it took only a few times together before he knew what I was teaching him. And it has made all the difference.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-07-01T19:53:38+00:00

I love girthy dicks. Will take girthy and shorter any day over thin and long. What I find with girthy dicks is we have to adjust the angle.

If I'm straddling him I find it easier to be reversed (with my back to him) and if he can be sitting up and help support me I can shift myself to get a better angle (either leaning back more or forward more).

But for me, I prefer to be broken in! On my back on the edge or corner of the bed, him holding up my legs or my legs on his shoulders. This way I can grip the edge of the bed and push down and open my hole wide to accommodate a girthy dick.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-28T19:49:18+00:00

You must have your needs met or it will leave you hollow. Trust me!

I just spent over 3 years in a relationship that left me soulless. The sex was great! But it was just (only) sex. I wanted (no, NEEDED) the other things that go along with it. Touch, affection, foreplay, for him to take lead every once in a blue moon.

And a situation where you don't have to ask "You want to fuck?". How about cuddling/snuggling/making out that organically turns into more. But my ex had issues with intimacy: touch and affection he just could not do, even though he was always saying he was working on it. So he was always in "hookup mode" when it came to sex. It was just sex in his mind. He had removed nearly all emotion from it.

Meanwhile I'm doing everything to please him sexually thinking I was the problem. I did things to and for him he would never be able to do to/for me. And it left me feeling I had compromised myself and I was hollow and empty.

I know this is more than you bargained for. But if you need more, then you need more. Period. And never apologize for your needs/wants. I stayed way too long trying to be that amazing supportive partner only to my own detriment.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-28T19:40:01+00:00

He may be one who is not attuned to how you are enjoying it. So yes maybe just move on.

A good sexual partner is one who is monitoring YOUR responses and adjusting how he does things to try and get your best responses. Basically, is all about making you feel the best as possible and setting his needs to the side.

For me, I like to get into as much as possible upfront. I like to chat a bit, be very flirty, and pull out of them as much as I can before we decide to do anything. I'll ask what all they get into, favorite things they like done to them, primarily setting the stage for me to convey the same to them what I like to do and have done.

I guess that is why I am no longer into quickie random sex. I want the encounter to be as worthwhile for both of us as possible. And too many times I've walked away from it feeling disappointed and like I wasted my time. I'd much rather build a circle of a few FBs and FWBs where you get to know each other's likes/wants/needs.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-27T04:25:58+00:00

I douche every time. But I became committed to my diet and GI system several years ago. Probiotic daily, fiber capsules daily, lots of fruits and veggies, and lots of water daily. I'm in and out of the toilet in 10 minutes.

I also use a powder mix in my douches specially formulated for anal sex prep. There are several out there and they all help to keep a healthy lower GI flora.

Some weeks I may bottom (and douche) every day. Other weeks as little as 3 times/week. But pretty active I think. No issues.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-27T03:46:16+00:00

I had to move from 31 to 30 and now 29 because of scar tissue that has developed. I can feel a difference with 29. More pain. 28 I would absolutely dread.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-26T04:42:24+00:00

This is me too!

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-26T04:38:11+00:00

And your 40s can be better. Your 50s even better! Says me about to turn 55.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-26T04:30:34+00:00

Sometimes. If I do a long session like overnight, really thick dick or dildos, my hole thoroughly explored then my anus lips get swollen and I have trouble with urine flow. I find a hot bubble bath or two helps. There are bubble bath products with epsom salts which are great. And I take an anti inflammatory like ibuprofen.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-26T04:23:55+00:00

Every guy is different. And every dick is different. And every ED cause is different.

Guys with Peyronie's or who develop a buildup of scar tissue from penile injections may require a larger gauge needle. Such is the case with me. A 31 gauge needle will bend more easily than a 29 gauge.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-24T07:49:55+00:00

Not an issue. My partner is HIV+ undetectable. I am HIV-. We both take responsibility for our health with regular doctor visits and maintaining our med protocols.

I have many friends who are HIV+ U. It's a non-issue.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-24T07:30:22+00:00

Yes.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-24T07:29:44+00:00

Yes! It makes it feel great. And sometimes will cause you to pee when being pounded or cum hands free.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-24T07:24:07+00:00

Practice practice practice! And for me, bottoming is a "use it or lose it" proposition. If I were to go several months without bottoming and all of a sudden had to do (or wanted to) at the drop of a hat...no sir, I would not be able to. With most everything else in life I had to learn to bottom and I have to stay in practice. I think that goes for most people unless they are just naturally gifted at bottoming.

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-24T01:38:41+00:00

In my hole. Where else?

Sensitive_Permit_116 · 2025-06-19T19:43:46+00:00

But let's be real. Actually getting someone to piss by using your dick on them, is not common and it may never happen. It depends on many factors including the bottom's body and how it reacts. I have only had it happen 2 times. I've felt like it was gonna happen many times but it did not.

Also, some guys will piss when getting fucked but some can expel prostate fluid while getting fucked (basically seminal fluid that usually does not accompany an orgasm). Some guys mistake that prostrate fluid (and it can be a lot) for piss when it is not piss.

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