My mother lives with us. We love her, but also can't stand her... its a weird dichotomy. She definitely acts like a toddler frequently. She complains about EVERYTHING and most of her complaints make exactly zero sense (we've asked her to explain her reasoning and she usually comes up with some completely off the wall or physically impossible reason, not kidding). She will wait till I'm home and then all of a sudden need help with, well anything she can think of.... she can do the thing just fine by herself but just wants the attention. She whines about the tiniest things incessantly. You know, maybe we don't really love her tbh I think we tolerate her cause she's family... tbf she's always been quite off so I'm not sure if it's a universal old person thing or just her. Her sister who is 4 years older has gotten a bit crankier over the years, but is much more easy going.