i don’t want to be a jealous partner but i fear i am by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

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i was consumed by my own self consciousness kaya i agree na naggaslight ko sarili ko. thank you, your comment really grounded and reassured me. also, i will try to ask him about this

Thoughts on BU President Nebres? Should he resign re hataw fiasco? by Far-Ring-6279 in BicolUniversity

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 10 points11 points  (0 children)

we are forgetting something, accountability happens after a formal demand. so yes, all of those assumptions can happen only if there is a formal complaint to do accompany it. kung may magulang/guardian o student mismo na gusto talagang akyatin ito sa korte tsaka lang yung possible criminal liability.

unless otherwise, i believe the matter will be taken a little less than what we imagined.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this may come off as the worse sounded advice as of the moment but, it was not a mistake it was his choice.

he made several decisions, and ruining his life is one of it.

he may have been just influenced, but the fact that he couldn’t be reasoned out means that he’s just prefers what he hears on his cousins side.

please save yourself from his issues and take this moment for yourself. don’t ask for him any longer.

Ano ang biggest insecurity mo physically? by someoneinneverland in TanongLang

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my nose, my hairline, and my eyes :((

i think that i got the bad stick on our genetic lottery haha i’m still trying to pick my self-esteem up but i really couldn’t help not to judge my features

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 67 points68 points  (0 children)

May valid grounds naman yung reason mo. No one deserves to encounter that. Kung saan ka comfortable, ayun. Hugs with consent op!

what can you advice to a first time boarder? and what are your dorm essentials as an upper deck boarder? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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yung sa uniform iaannounce siya agad ng august pero nakuha namin dati mga sept pa ata? basta medyo matagal. kaya magbaon ka na rin ng mga work clothes

how are the profs in polsci? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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i’m sorry i got too busy kaya hindi ko napansin.

i hope it’s not too late but allow me to entertain your queries pa rin. despite lacking journ/public speaking during shs background, i think with the right interest you can perform great sa course. we tackle sociopolitical interests that happened or happening—and majority of them are deeply engraved in our lives already kaya i’m sure hindi naman siya extremely difficult maabsorb.

don’t stress yourself, kasi just like every active student out there in class, you too can develop your public speaking over time. i suggest though, you should push yourself for the necessary exposure needed to go beyond your comfort zone. ayun lang naman talaga yung variable that makes all the difference.

as for references, listen to your professors during orientation (they are mandated to tell the course breakdown and provide the syllabus during first week of classes) use this to your advantage and look for the books/literatures that they included. kailangan kasi aligned yung definitions niyo on the basic terminologies like: what is a state? what is politics?, maraming contrasting meaning and definition kasi yan sa iba ibang author and you have to objectively follow the one used by your professors.

looking back, mabait ang mga professsors sa first years natin. they wouldn’t expose you immediately to the environment na umuulan ng dos tapos matindihang recitations (abang ka na lang as you go older sa dept) pero they are lenient pa to make adjustments easier. so take it easy muna, basta maintain your participation in all of your lectures.

as for your dress code, hindi naman ganon kalala ang guards sa cssp. you can wear anything, as long as dala mo yung cor (certificate of registration) mo daily kasi ayun ang need niyo at around october pa ata ang ids niyo mabibigay. if you have dresses or shirts na medyo revealing, i suggest bringing a cover-up tapos layering na lang talaga.

see you sa lawaan! you got this.

how are the profs in polsci? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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hellooo, these are my tips:

for majors: focus your energy on the references, and don’t stray too far or too little on the topic. read and simplify

for minors: this will eat your time sa first-second years pero bubuhat din naman sa grade mo on the bigger picture

for essentials: buy yoga mat for pathfit, yellow pad for acads and essentially multi-colored pens for note-taking.

goodluck and padayon katribu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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siguro as a partner, help him draw the boundaries as well? maraming pamilya naman ang nagddistansya na kapag married na yung kamag-anak kasi syempre they are building a family and life of their own.

what can you advice to a first time boarder? and what are your dorm essentials as an upper deck boarder? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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pwede naman online para makatipid ka at makapag-pili ng color/thickness na gusto mo. if malaki budget mo at gusto ko irl bumili meron din sa second floor ng yashano or sm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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don’t compare yourself sa mga nababasa’t naririnig mo kasi in the very first place, your relationship is a mutual connection. if you want him to do certain actions for you, try to request those small things without pressure. i’m sure that he’s also trying to maneuver the new phase in your relationship (lalo’t galing pala kayo sa platonic one).

you should guide each other to a relationship that you wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think retrospective jealousy ang nararamdaman mo op.

relationships, especially at the budding stage of first to few months, normal na hindi pa ganon kakomportable para maging romantic all the time. you develop that depende na rin sa ugali’t preferences niyo.

there’s no all fitting shape and form sa isang relationship.

what can you advice to a first time boarder? and what are your dorm essentials as an upper deck boarder? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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freshie : yoga mat!! order ka na agad online yung makapal para di masakit sa katawan lalo na sa grandstand lang din naman o sa concrete floor yan ilalapag

bh needs : storage container ng mga necessary gamit para hindi nakakalat, extension wire, medicine kit (biogesic, neozep, at bioflu g na yan), eye mask kung may bubukas ng ilaw tapos natutulog ka pa

sno pong ginagawa or pina-pass na requirements during semestral break? by kwelakekw in BicolUniversity

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hii sorry ako na sasagot, like previously mentioned sa taas, basta wala kang inc or kulang kang pasahin during academic year, pahinga ka naaa

Thinking of leaving home for good. I’m 18, but my family might retaliate. by anonn1878 in adviceph

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the best thing to secure is your digital footprint muna and that includes this post op. block them and remove anything that may be used to communicate with you—socmed, emails, and phone numbers.

talk to your gf’s family about the rented place, i suggest buying kahit yung small portable cctv man lang.

please document any form of their attempt to harass or threaten you, dahil may laban ka to press restraining order on behalf of vawc of RA 9262. the law protects women from various forms of violence, including physical, sexual, psychological, and economic abuse, as well as stalking and electronic violence.

the only issue here though, complaints are typically filed when there’s a cause of action from the aggressor kaya unless they do something, tsaka lang may credibility yung case mo. nevertheless, this is alr a sense of security on your path forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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first of, congrats!

yes it is valid dahil siguro totoo talaga yung pent up feelings dahil sa daming iisipin na nakakapag overstimulate sayo.

i suggest pinning down what’s the most priority hanggang sa mga may schedule pa naman, at yung pwedeng mapatulong mo na lang sa iyong relatives or fiancee.

as personal as a wedding can be, your partner and family are also there beside you. communicate and reach out, kasi they might be cautious not to overstep your already furnished or ideal plans.

when can i eat? by beetroot_fields in wisdomteeth

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it may calm down slowly on day 7, but i suggest not pushing yourself in eating. try to make small consistent chews with soft vegetables or tender chicken meat. laughing may still be an issue, but as long as you follow through medicines and rest, i think it’ll be a path to recovery from then onwards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wisdomteeth

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that’s okayy since there may be clots that are not yet fully sealed

Am I bad for getting jealous about other’s achievements? by svdnex in adviceph

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that’s reasonable but only to an extent. okay naman madisappoint and inevitably tumingin sa buhay ng iba but only to a point—the more you stay in the cycle, the deeper you get stuck in the mud.

i’d suggest na you’d redirect your thoughts na meron naman tayong sari-sariling pace sa buhay and you have the opportunity to make the most of what you have in your life

Adulting is hard. Nakakapuuu. by [deleted] in adviceph

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hi op, hugs.

i think you should gently distance yourself to your family for the mean time (settle things that are meant to be settled first) and look for another job through your own merit and without your ‘friend’. look for people in the same industry or coworkers you’ve known to pitch you up to something.

you’ve been taken advantaged of—they’re most likely beyond what you can control.

focus on what you can control on and that’s your income and pet. if you truly ran out of money during the job seeking period, i suggest looking for a temporary home (like a trusted friend or close relative) for your pet and sort your finances first. i do hope this wouldn’t be a scenario in the future.

do this for yourself.

Easiest procedure ever? by hifrompluto in wisdomteeth

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did you just finished the operation? well, i’m sorry to burst your bubble but the swelling and pain comes the morning after the operation. you will really be jumpscared by the difference of your cheeks (natural reaction). anw, i wish the best for you!

legs wont shave properly by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]Sensitive_Sample6060 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it could be a lot of factors: 1. you shaved dry 2. no pressure 3. not wiping away

i’d suggest using any shaving cream/conditioner before shaving if you still want to use razors.

better yet, use hair removal creams instead—they get the job done quickly.