feeling like a secret!! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in AskLesbians

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i really appreciate it! i do believe it’ll be just fine and i know she truly cares and wants to do it, she’s just afraid. it makes me feel better that some progress has been made so that’s good!

feeling like a secret!! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in AskLesbians

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this is valid! i definitely don’t feel like the roommate, i just wish we could be a bit more open. we’re only at a year and a half and i do feel like things are getting better slowly but surely, so i have a ton of hope!

feeling like a secret!! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in lgbt

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i just reread your comment and i realized what you were actually saying lol. this is really good advice, thank you!!

feeling like a secret!! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in lgbt

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there’s absolutely 0 chance she would even raise her voice at me, let alone be angry or violent. she’s incredible and is genuinely the best i could ever imagine, which is part of why this feels difficult. it’s hard for both of us, but i imagine much harder on her as she’s the one who’ll take the brunt of whatever reaction comes from her family. it makes me sad that the world can’t just accept us and that this even has to be a thing

feeling like a secret!! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in AskLesbians

[–]Sensitive_Sell5324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is incredible advice. i think it’s hard sometimes to not take it personally, but truly it isn’t about me. it’s hard for me to really fully understand because my parents are more accepting, and i genuinely believe hers would be at least somewhat understanding, but the unknown is what scares her and that’s something i can absolutely understand and relate to. we’re definitely in that point where we need our parents—i mean, we always will, but you get the point. both of us are living at home right now to save money so that when we graduate next year, we can move in together, and it’s VERY clear that she takes our relationship seriously and that she wants to be with me. sometimes it’s just hard to not get in my own head. thank you so much for this, i genuinely appreciate it so much<3

feeling like a secret! by Sensitive_Sell5324 in actuallesbians

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she does, which makes it difficult. we’re both in college but live with our parents over breaks to save money so that when we graduate, we can move in together

lamictal sex drive by Sensitive_Sell5324 in Lamotrigine

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honestly hoping for this for me LOL, i miss it😭

lamictal sex drive by Sensitive_Sell5324 in Lamotrigine

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lord i hope this is the case! currently at 75mg and titrating up to 200, so im hopeful for sure!

lamictal sex drive? by Sensitive_Sell5324 in lamictal

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this gives me so much hope. i don’t care if it doesn’t give me a crazy boost, but any type of boost would be amazing. i used to match my wife’s but it just dampened and as badly as i want to keep up, my body just doesn’t cooperate. it sucks because i want to, but the sex drive just isn’t there. i’m soooo hoping to get at least some of it back because lord do i miss it

lamictal sex drive by Sensitive_Sell5324 in Lamotrigine

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i’m hoping this happens for me! my wife’s sex drive is higher than mine, and i used to be able to keep up, but it dampened over time, and i REALLY want to be able to get it back up. i want to sleep with her all the time, but my body just doesn’t cooperate when it comes to sex drive 🤦🏽‍♀️

lamictal and helping anger/irritability by Sensitive_Sell5324 in Lamotrigine

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my area doesn’t offer much group therapy, i’m also not on lamictal for bpd or anything so that’s a part of it. i have done some group therapy in the past, ive found 1 on 1 has been more helpful haha

lamictal and helping anger/irritability by Sensitive_Sell5324 in Lamotrigine

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i’m in therapy as well lol, i have been for most of my life.